The writing journey is not a smooth, easy ride. There will be setbacks, failures, doubts, and frustrations along the way to achieving your dream. Yet I believe that, with the right attitude and right approach, this journey can not only become bearable, but enjoyable for the aspiring author.
Here are five qualities every serious writer should possess before heading out on their journey:
1. Humility
This is the single most important trait a writer should have. Why? Because it’s the foundation to all of the other qualities on this list. You can’t maintain the right attitude throughout your writing journey if you lack humility.
Writers need this trait for the following reasons . . .
- So we can accept criticism and make our manuscript stronger
- So we can understand that there will always be room to prove
- So we can support other authors and give them the help they need in their own journey
- So we can be an easy client for agents and editors to work with
- So our head doesn’t swell when we receive positive feedback and reviews
2. Patience
One of the reasons why I wanted to begin my writing journey at 16-years-old was because I knew the publication process wouldn’t be quick. Every stage of the journey takes time — writing the manuscript, growing as a writer, building a platform, revision/editing, submission process, contract process, publication process, marketing, etc. And when there’s a dream that’s heavy on your heart, each stage seems much longer than it actually is.
The writing journey is just that: A journey. Although there are milestones along the way, I don’t truly believe the career novelist should have a “finish line”. Every milestone is an opportunity for celebration and a reminder that you’re closer to your Publication Dream. Aspiring authors especially need this trait so they don’t enter the journey with false expectations and give up when the process takes longer than they imagined.
3. Generosity
Which writer do you believe leaves the best impression — the arrogant, haughty writer who is only in the business to achieve his/her own dreams? Or the writer who seeks to serve readers and fellow writers? The writing community is close-knit, and most of us are more than willing to share knowledge that we believe will help other writers. (This is why there are so many writing-related blog and books on the craft.) Don’t be that one writer who hoards their knowledge and seeks to gain help and info without ever giving back to the writing community. Most authors do not publish a book without the help of multiple other people (that’s why there are acknowledgements in the backs of books!). If you’ve reached where you are today because someone took the time to help you, don’t forget to return the favor — even if it’s not to the same person who helped you. What goes around will certainly come around!
4. Selflessness
How can you be generous if you’re only focused on your own growth as a writer? Or how can you remain humble if your Ultimate Goal as an author has to do with “me, me, me”? It’s possible for the aspiring author to chase their dream (publication) and remain selfless in the process.
I advise re-evaluating the reason(s) you write and the Ultimate Goal for your writing journey. Is it to gain success and see your name in print? Or do you hope to offer stories that will provide entertainment for readers, shed light on a certain topic, minister to readers, etc.?
Again: The author who makes a lasting impression and gains the most popularity amongst readers is the one who not only writes great stories, but one who stays focused on others as well. This is the author who wants to connect with their readers. This is the author who will promote other books within their genre because in doing they’ll support their Ultimate Goal as an author: To introduce entertaining stories to readers.
5. Self-confidence
(No, being selfless and having self-confidence is not an oxymoron!) I’ve noticed that, if a writer neglects to have confidence in their ability to write, they don’t get far in this journey. They’ll quit as soon as someone criticizes their work. If you truly want to reach publication, you’re going to have to start believing in yourself — and that will involve believing in your potential even if no one else does. Just because your writing isn’t perfect now doesn’t mean it can’t improve. And just because your story might have plot-holes doesn’t mean it’s too late to fix them. These are only obstacles to overcome, not Dead End signs. Every published author, I’m sure, has struggled with self-doubt at one point or another. But just because you don’t write in the same style as your favorite author doesn’t mean you can’t write.
Every writer has a unique style. Every writer has a unique calling for their publication journey. Focus on your own strengths, accomplishments, and purpose as a writer, and don’t allow yourself to compare yourself to others. Those writers have already been taken! Instead, be the best version of yourself that you can be. Keep growing in your craft, and write stories that you feel called to write and in the best way you know how.
Your future readers will some day thank you for not giving up!
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Which quality on this list is hardest for you to attain? Are there any you’d like to add to this list? Let me know in the comments!
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