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Finish Strong

 As we near the end of the year, my thoughts turn to finishing the year strong. Where can I still push forward? What can I do during the holidays to promote or grow my social media? It’s a busy time with family and friends, yet we can still advance our goals. This year isn’t complete yet.

If you haven’t set goals for your author journey, now is a great time to get some going.

If you don’t set writing goals, it will be hard to know when you reach a milestone. You can’t wake up one morning with a finished manuscript. It begins with small steps that lead to more steps that continue until you have a rough draft that might look like a story.

Success as an author is one step after another that never really stops!

God leads you to more when you’ve accomplished the small steps in front of you.

Pray for God to show you what you can do and how to get there. It takes faith and perseverance. You can do it!

One of my goals for the rest of this year is doubling down on my social media posts. Another goal on every notepad, digital reminder, and planner remains to write daily on my work in progress. It’s been in a rough draft for over two years. It’s a mess, but it won’t be by January.

Guess what I’ll be doing in January?

Creating a goal sheet. I think you get the idea. Set some goals. You’ll be happy to have them. You can start strong and finish strong!

Jill Chapman resides in Southern Indiana with her husband of forty-four years. They enjoy their country lifestyle and visiting with their children and grandchildren. Her life centers around her family and her yellow lab, Indy. She is an avid movie watcher, loves Mexican food, and enjoys watercolor painting. Jill says her life is like a good plate of nachos, a tiny kick of spice, and a whole lotta cheese.

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Hold Your Place

Recently, I had to pause several of my plans to help family. I got behind in my writing goals for the year. I kept doing basic social media posts, but that’s about it. My writing slowed and then stopped as I struggled to stay afloat. One morning, as I looked over my blank planning calendar, I felt a tremendous sense of discouragement.

What happened? How could I have messed up so spectacularly?

I filled in what I had done the weeks before. Doctor visits, babysitting, family obligations, and church. Had I failed? God called me to write, but He also calls me to care for my family. To reach out to people around me with love. While I filled in my planner, I prayed for God to show me where I could fit writing into my schedule again. I may not have moved forward with my goals for the year, I certainly hadn’t failed.

I’d held my place.

I hadn’t given up on my goals, only paused. A bookmark, if you will, in life. Holding my place until I can get back at it.

To set a goal is good, to meet the goal is great, to lose sight of the goal or miss it, is human.

If your goals seem like a distant memory or they are fading into the background, don’t give up on them. Remind yourself that you’re human and sometimes life calls us in a different direction for a bit. Just like a good book with a bookmark where you left off, your writing will wait for you while you hold your place.

Jill Chapman resides in Southern Indiana with her husband of forty-four years. They enjoy their country lifestyle and visiting with their children and grandchildren. Her life centers around her family and her yellow lab, Indy. She is an avid movie watcher, loves Mexican food, and enjoys watercolor painting. Jill says her life is like a good plate of nachos, a tiny kick of spice, and a whole lotta cheese.

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Do You FAce Writer’s Slam?

When a restaurant has too many people show up at one time to eat, they say they’re getting slammed. Writers experience getting slammed too. What is involved in a writer’s slam?

When I sought publication in 2019, I found out that a good or even great manuscript was only the beginning. A writer must be prepared to sell themselves, as well as the story. Most agents and editors look for an online presence, an ability to draw an audience through your newsletter, your ability to write a synopsis, do an elevator pitch, and write an outline of your story.

Another way a writer receives a slam involves critiques.

You must learn to take critiques with a thick-skinned attitude. Most people loved the concept of my first book, but no one liked the opening lines. (And I mean no one.) I rewrote the first paragraph of that book at least twenty times. I’m talking about the arrangement of a few sentences with changes in wording several times! After a while, it had me questioning my ability to write anything at all. Through lots of encouragement and mentoring, I could look beyond the criticism and see the goal. A well written opening scene to an exciting story.

You’re probably thinking, “How do I survive the slam?”

The first step to survival remains having a positive attitude.

This holds true in many areas of life. Look forward to each day as an opportunity to learn what comes next in the journey. Pray for guidance and patience. Realize there will be setbacks and let downs. Keep moving forward. Try again.

The second step involves finding a group of people who are like-minded and have the same goals as you do.

There are many ways to accomplish this. Facebook groups, websites, podcasts, and local writers. I began a group at my local library for writers. We’ve become a tight-knit group of encouragers. Take notes, make lists of contests, follow other writers and authors on social media, read books to learn better ways to write, and remember that it’s a journey.

The last step involves goal setting.

Take a day or two and set goals for yourself. Short term and long-term benchmarks help keep your focus. Create a vision board and hang it up in your work space. Some days, you may feel discouraged. The goals and the vision board will keep you on track. They also serve the purpose of showing how far you’ve come. You can’t do everything right away, but you can work toward the endgame of publication.

If the pressure of the writer’s slam pushes on you today, don’t despair. Keep moving, praying, and most of all, keep writing! You’ll make it through.

Jill Chapman resides in Southern Indiana with her husband of forty-four years. They enjoy their country lifestyle and visiting with their children and grandchildren. Her life centers around her family and her yellow lab, Indy. She is an avid movie watcher, loves Mexican food, and enjoys watercolor painting. Jill says her life is like a good plate of nachos, a tiny kick of spice, and a whole lotta cheese.

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A Love-Hate Relationship

Pssst! I have a love-hate relationship going on.

Relationships can be tricky, and this one is one of my worst. I try to make it work, yet the other participant doesn’t always work well with my efforts. Have you ever had a relationship like this? The frustration! The irritation! Since I’m married, you might think I’m speaking about my husband, but no. It’s not him. That’s another article entirely.

What is causing me this trouble?

It’s technology! As someone of seasoned age, I haven’t been raised with technology like younger people. When I began my journey toward publication, I didn’t know how to use social media or have a website. It took several months to build my knowledge base to get things up and running.

Gone are the days of sending in a manuscript written in cursive through the post office. We must jump into the technology age and use all these things to help us succeed. Social media, websites, and editor submissions all require technology. We’ve mastered many difficult things in our lives, and we can do this!

Some great ways to learn include using Google, YouTube, writers’ groups online, and family members under the age of twenty or so. Many local libraries offer classes on computers. Don’t be afraid to ask them if they offer courses for your specific need when using technology.

Your ideas deserve to be out there.

Don’t let fear of technology keep you from moving forward in your efforts to become a successful author.

Jill Chapman resides in Southern Indiana with her husband of forty-four years. They enjoy their country lifestyle and visiting with their children and grandchildren. Her life centers around her family and her yellow lab, Indy. She is an avid movie watcher, loves Mexican food, and enjoys watercolor painting. Jill says her life is like a good plate of nachos, a tiny kick of spice, and a whole lotta cheese.

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You’re Not Late

Do you hate being late?

The feeling of missing out on the first of a dinner can be frustrating. All the good seats are taken, and you have to play catch up with the conversation. This is how I felt when I began writing at sixty. I worried about everything because there was so much to learn. Doubt flooded in when I saw all the other writers out there. Would anyone even care about what I had to say?

Do you feel this way as an older writer?

The seats may seem taken, but you have room at the table. No matter your age, some people need your voice in the mix. You bring a perspective that younger writers may still need to acquire. Fiction and nonfiction alike will benefit from your wisdom and viewpoint.

Life has been a training ground to prepare you for this stage in your journey.

Bitter disappointments can lead to life lessons for your characters in works of fiction. In nonfiction, these pieces of overcoming can lead the way for those coming along behind you. You’ve seen some stuff, and this stuff will broaden your work. It will give it depth and bring a rich voice to the writing world.

Meanwhile, the joys you’ve experienced also bring with them a path for others to follow. Whether you write fiction or nonfiction, your life’s journey has brought you to this point to share your knowledge, wisdom, wit, and adventure.

There are challenges to overcome in beginning the journey to write at this time in your life.

Learning new things can seem overwhelming. Agents, editors, marketing skills, and the list goes on! Remember, God has brought you to this point and won’t let you down now. Since he called you to write, he’ll make way for you. There will be an answer to every challenge, so with prayer and patience, you can do it. 

Jill Chapman resides in Southern Indiana with her husband of forty-four years. They enjoy their country lifestyle and visiting with their children and grandchildren. Her life centers around her family and her yellow lab, Indy. She is an avid movie watcher, loves Mexican food, and enjoys watercolor painting. Jill says her life is like a good plate of nachos, a tiny kick of spice, and a whole lotta cheese.

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Call 911 for Your Manuscript

Have you ever thrown your hands up in defeat after reading your manuscript and groaned, “Someone Call 911!?” Maybe you’re anxious about how your story is developing. Perhaps you’re frustrated with your characters. Or when you read the dialogue out loud, it’s boring and unrealistic.

We all get desperate for help in our writing at one time or another and it’s OK to ask for help.

I recently had a very real 911 experience with my husband. Long story short, he had a mild stroke and his right side became paralyzed. This was a complete shock as he is not that old and we did not know he had hypertension. He’d even had a recent physical. We were stunned.

I knew, however, that it was time to call 911 and my husband is currently doing intensive Rehab therapy. He’s slowly getting his strength back with the help of professionals.

If, as a writer, you’re feeling agony over a written piece that just does not seem “healthy,” go to a professional in the field—an editor, published writer, someone who you trust to give you feedback. (Some editors will request a fee for their critique so ask before you receive an unexpected invoice)

 

Perhaps your story line drags or your hero is not very likeable. Maybe you’re just plain stuck. An expert can help you get back on track and give constructive criticism. Don’t be afraid to ask.

Contacts from writer’s conferences are a great resource. If you belong to a writer’s group, ask a fellow member. If the first person you contact is in the middle of their own writing woes (it happens!), ask another. Get the help you need to give rehab to your story. It might be a simple solution.

Some ER visits merely require a stitch or two. Some require intense care and follow up. But as the goal for a person in physical crisis is a healthy body, a writer’s goal is a healthy manuscript—one that draws a reader from one page to the next and keeps their eyes wide open, long after the lights should be out.

Don’t hesitate to call the emergency number of a fellow wordsmith who can bring perspective and healing to your story.

Then carry on.

Elaine Marie Cooper has two upcoming releases on January 18, 2019: War’s Respite (Prequel novella) and Love’s Kindling. They are the first two books in the Dawn of America Series set in Revolutionary War Connecticut. Cooper is the award-winning author of Fields of the Fatherless and Bethany’s Calendar. Her 2016 release (Saratoga Letters) was finalist in Historical Romance in both the Selah Awards and Next Generation Indie Book Awards. She penned the three-book Deer Run Saga and has been published in numerous magazines and anthologies. You can visit her website/ blog at www.elainemariecooper.com

 

 

 

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Join Critique Groups

It was 2013 and I’d become desperate to find a critique group. Most successful writers I knew had at least one or two critique partners with whom they could share input on their writings. Even the best writers know that there are things we all miss in our works-in-progress: repetitive words or phrases, punctuation errors, things we assume are clear but may seem murky to a reader. Even a talented wordsmith needs someone else’s eyes to see what they cannot.

I really wanted a group that would gather regularly to give hope, help, and encouragement to me. But I also wanted to be able to return the favor. After all, writing is a solitary task and finding fellowship between writer friends seemed to be a worthwhile cause. Who else could understand the strangeness of my mind except another author? 😉

While there were plenty of writer’s groups to be found, I really wanted one where I would not be asked to critique a story line that made me uncomfortable. All it takes is a glance at books on Amazon to know that if you can judge a book by its cover —and sometimes you can—I could potentially feel out-of-place. The urge to crawl under the table in embarrassment and conviction in some editing sessions would likely ensue. Many adult books are far too “adult” for me.

I searched and asked around to see if there were any Christian groups meeting that would fit what I was looking for. There was nothing. Finally, after months of seeking, the answer became obvious, if not highly intimidating: I needed to start a group for Christian writers.

Great, I mused. I have no spare time, reams of writing I needed to do, a part time job, and a calendar that looked like a Picasso painting with scribbles and commitments. How would I find time to organize a group much less navigate the responsibility of leading it? I still felt like a newcomer to the skill. I didn’t know what I was doing.

Then someone told me about Word Weavers International. I searched out the requirements to start a chapter, get organized, and spread the word. I read their statement of faith, which helped me breathe a sigh of relief. There were guidelines to acceptable submissions for critique. While the stories are not required to be Christian, the content must not violate Christian principles or beliefs.

I loved the technique they taught for actually giving feedback to other writers. Called the “sandwich method,” Word Weavers instructs participants to start with something positive to the writer, then interject constructive words to help the author, then end with something else positive to wrap up their comments.

This is to encourage rather than discourage. Critiques that are filled with negativity can be so demeaning to a writer’s view of their abilities, some wordsmiths have been known to quit the craft altogether. Critiquing done well is an art. Done poorly, it can ruin a writer’s chance to grow and refine their skills.

There may be other writer’s groups that meet your need where you live. But if not, please check out Word Weavers. In fact, there might already be a Word Weavers chapter in your area.

Whatever choice you make, I encourage you to find the fellowship and the support of your fellow wordsmiths. We really do need each other.

For information on Word Weavers, check out their website at https://word-weavers.com/

Carry on.

Elaine Marie Cooper is the award-winning author of Fields of the Fatherless and Bethany’s Calendar. Her 2016 release (Saratoga Letters) was finalist in Historical Romance in both the Selah Awards and Next Generation Indie Book Awards. She penned the three-book Deer Run Saga and has been published in numerous magazines and anthologies. She freely admits to being a history geek. Look for her upcoming releases, War’s Respite and Love’s Kindling. This 4-book series, set in Revolutionary War Connecticut, is entitled Dawn of America. You can visit her site at http://www.elainemariecooper.com

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Focus on One Thing at a Time

Ever been so inundated with projects you didn’t know where to start? I encourage you to FOCUS and take one thing at a time.

I recently returned from a wonderful writer’s conference in Wheaton, Illinois. I’ve been to several conferences before but this time, I came home with so many projects and so much excitement to write, I could hardly stand to be around myself. Imagine my poor husband! Actually, I brought home suggestions for freelance work for him, as well, so he was pretty happy. 😉

After I unpacked, did my laundry, and laid out all my materials in my office, a bit of distress struck. Where do I start? I have this and this and this …

Then I remembered what my newspaper-reporter-husband said to me years ago when I did freelance work. I sometimes had multiple assignments that involved writing, interviews, and even setting up photo shoots. And I juggled all this with the needs of three active kids.  I often found myself in a tizzy—until my husband taught me the key: FOCUS on one thing at a time.

It seems simple enough. But when your brain is in panic mode, or you’re too pumped on caffeine, it’s easy to get bogged down with the WHOLE, rather than focus on the ONE thing that needs to get done, right now.

 

So, after staring at the spread of work I’d laid out in my office, I took a deep breath, prayed for wisdom, and made a list. What were the priorities? What needed doing today? And that’s where I started.

In one short week, I’d accomplished more in my writing than I’d done in a very long time. Rather than allow the anxiety to set in, I prayed for wisdom and focus. And God came through as I did my part.

It takes lots of discipline to be a writer. We are surrounded by so many distractions on every side and we must turn off the interruptions that suck away our mental energy. Unless, of course, a child is bleeding—and I’ve had that happen! I encourage you to guard your thoughts. Control what you can. And pray for FOCUS.

You might be amazed at what you can accomplish.

Carry on.

Elaine Marie Cooper is the award-winning author of Fields of the Fatherless and Bethany’s Calendar. Her latest release (Saratoga Letters) was finalist in Historical Romance in both the Selah Awards and Next Generation Indie Book Awards. She penned the three-book Deer Run Saga and has been published in numerous magazines and anthologies. She freely admits to being a history geek. Look for her upcoming series set in Revolutionary War Connecticut. The 4-book series is entitled Dawn of America. You can visit her site at www.elainemariecooper.com