Glass Half Full or Half Empty?

Several years ago, I noticed the trend of people having a “word for the year.” Especially in Christian writing circles, people would use this word to guide their goals and interactions for the year.

I have tried coming up with an official word of the year (even praying for one), with mixed results. One year I felt, deep in my heart, my word was “connection,” and then I ended up staying home most of the year with health problems and other issues. I did connect with the tv remote and lots of chocolate, though.

Recently (as I write this post toward the end of December 2021), I have been reviewing the past year and thinking about the next one. I am not saying it’s my OFFICIAL WORD OF THE YEAR, but here is what I have been pondering: perspective.

The definition of perspective is “a point of view, a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something.” That hits me in the gut.

A few days ago, I was getting something out of one of my kitchen cabinets. A can of food came falling out, and I felt frustrated. Two years ago, my wife and I moved to a much smaller home with a lot less storage. Why do I have to cram everything in like this? Why do I have more room?

I had a catch in my spirit. I live in Eastern Kentucky, and, right before Christmas, a devastating tornado rolled through the Western part of our state. Many people lost their homes and all their possessions. Those folks would probably love to have a house like mine, small as it is.

Right there at the kitchen counter, I repented and thanked God for a roof over my head and abundant food in my cabinets. It is all about perspective.

What does this have to do with writing? EVERYTHING. How often do we lament that we aren’t making more progress, not getting those big contracts and assignments? What if we chose to be thankful for the things we do get to write? Even for the small, seemingly inconsequential pieces? Even if a smaller piece touches one person, it is worth it.

Changing perspective often encourages thankfulness. Did I sign a big book contract in 2021? No. Did I make some valuable connections and write some smaller pieces for different outlets? Yes. I’m truly thankful for the opportunities I was given in 2021 and look forward to what’s in store for 2022. I’m trying not to lament over the things that didn’t happen.

Perspective. Could it be THE word of the year? I guess time will tell.

Carlton Hughes, represented by Cyle Young of Hartline Literary, wears many hats. By day, he is a professor of communication. On Wednesday evenings and Sunday mornings, he serves as a children’s pastor. In his “spare time,” he is a freelance writer. Carlton is an empty-nesting dad and devoted husband who likes long walks on the beach, old sitcoms, and chocolate—all the chocolate. His work has been featured in Chicken Soup for the Soul: The Dating Game, The Wonders of Nature, Let the Earth Rejoice, Just Breathe, So God Made a Dog, and Everyday Grace for Men. His latest book is Adventures in Fatherhood, co-authored with Holland Webb.