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Expressing Encouragement

“Your mom was proud of you!” The words in yesterday’s email from one of Mom’s friends brought tears to my eyes.

This expression of encouragement gripped my heart in a deep way. I admit, I’m amazed at how the words still bring tears to my adult eyes.

It’s been a long time since Mom died, and even longer since I was a child looking for parental affirmation. So why do these words, even today, still touch my soul? Perhaps it’s the deep bond between parent and child. Whether adopted or biological, the relationship between generations impacts us more deeply than I think we often realize.

As we mature, our extended relationships seem to take over our time and energies. We look to others in our professional circles, or church friends, or fellow parents of our school age child to share kudos and encouragements. Sometimes we feel that we “outgrow” the need for our parents. Perhaps we are wrong.

Which brings me to the next thought: What words that we speak to our children today will they carry in their hearts forever? Will they feel encouraged in whatever their capabilities? Will they feel unconditional love through your words? Do they know you are proud of them?

As wordsmiths, we understand the power of a well written line. We can create a realistic antagonist and a heroic protagonist. But can we create goodwill and encouragement in the real people who matter the most—our children?

It’s often been said that when raising your children, the days go slowly but the years fly by. As a grandma, I can attest to that fact!

Perhaps you are single and have no children. Have you thought about becoming a mentor to a parentless child? A foster parent? A big brother or sister who volunteers to take on a positive role in a world where so many kids flounder and feel unloved? My younger son became a Big Brother years ago to a fatherless 8-year-old. The boy is now a grown young man who my son still interacts with. We’ve made his “Little Brother” part of our family get-togethers.  My son took on that parental role and has kept the relationship going, even though he now has two children of us own.

Never downplay the importance of the parent-child relationship, no matter how old you are and no matter the biological tie.

Carry on.

Elaine Marie Cooper has two historical fiction books that released in 2019: War’s Respite (Prequel novella) and Love’s Kindling. Love’s Kindling is available in both e-book and paperback. They are the first two books in the Dawn of America Series set in Revolutionary War Connecticut. Cooper is the award-winning author of Fields of the Fatherless and Bethany’s Calendar. Her 2016 release (Saratoga Letters) was finalist in Historical Romance in both the Selah Awards and Next Generation Indie Book Awards. She has been published in Chicken Soup for the Soul and HomeLife magazine. She also penned the three-book historical series, Deer Run Saga. Her upcoming release, Scarred Vessels,” is about the black soldiers in the American Revolution. Look for it in October 2020. You can visit her website/ blog at www.elainemariecooper.com

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Some Pieces of the Picture Book Publishing Puzzle By Shannon Anderson

My dream as a kid was to become an elementary teacher and write books for kids. In high school, I had a job at our local public library in the children’s department. It was a great experience for my future careers. I loved processing the new books and being the first to read them. I loved matching kids to the perfect books. I loved seeing the clever ways authors used their words to create a story that touched the heart or sparked an idea.

After college, I taught first grade. Hands-down, my favorite part of the day was read- aloud time. Turning kids on to books, getting a giggle, or seeing the light bulbs turn on  is an amazing opportunity. My chance to be an even bigger part of this magic became a reality when I was awarded a Teacher Creativity Fellowship to pursue a passion of my choice. It wasn’t hard to choose. I decided to use my fellowship to learn all about the children’s book industry and try my hand at writing books. (This opportunity led to the publication of six books so far.)

[bctt tweet=”The first thing I learned, there are a lot of things to learn! ” username=””]As much as I hoped for a short cut or some insider secret, there weren’t any. However, there are a lot of things you can do to get on the right path towards publication. There are so many pieces to this giant puzzle of how to become a published author. For starters, you need to know a lot about the genre you are writing, you need to know the proper way to submit your manuscripts, the roles of the different people in the industry, how to sharpen your craft, your publication options, and your market.

Just as with any new skill or hobby, you have to do your research. I started out by attending conferences, taking online classes, and finding writers and organizations. There is a wonderful group called the SCBWI, the Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators. I joined this organization and began attending their regional and national conferences. With each conference, I learned a few more pieces of the puzzle. There are also many online resources, from blogs to classes that you can take.

Research also includes reading books in your genre. If you want to write humorous picture books, you should be reading any Mo Willems or Jon Scieszka book you can get your hands on. If you want to write nonfiction picture books, you need to read those. Reading in your genre helps you get a feel for the formats, styles, lengths, and content these books possess.

When you get ideas for stories, be sure to write them down. It could be a clever title, a fun character, or a whole story plot. Don’t rely on your memory. Make time to write. It would be hypocritical for me to say write every day, because I have a hard time finding the time to do this, but do make time each week to write something.

Once you have a story that has been through several drafts, seek out a critique group or partner. Having someone else read your story is powerful. When the story comes from your own head, it’s hard to separate your own thoughts from what is actually on the page.[bctt tweet=” Fresh eyes will be able to find spots that need polished or clarified.” username=””] Exchange stories with people in your group. Reading the work of others also helps you become better, as you learn new styles and approaches.

You need to know your market. Find out who publishes books like your story. You can also purchase a Children’s Writing Market Guide to find out about current publishing houses and the types of submissions they are taking. In some cases, you have to have an agent in order to send them something, but there are many houses that will accept un-agented material.

Since we are focusing on picture books, you need to know that if you are not an illustrator, you can still be the author of a picture book. In many publishing houses, the publisher will seek out an illustrator that matches the style of your book. Some publishers have illustrators on staff, some pay an artist a flat fee for hire, and some illustrators will share the royalty split with you when the book comes out. If you are an illustrator, then you have an advantage over those of us who are not. [bctt tweet=”Publishers love to work with authors that can also illustrate their own work!” username=””]

I’m an elementary teacher and children’s book author. As the Regional Advisor for the Indiana Society for Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators, I attend and plan many writing conferences. I’m also on the board of directors for the Indiana State Reading Association and the high ability coordinator for my school system for K-5 grade students. I share my home with my husband, Matt, our two daughters, Emily and Madison, and dog, two cats, and a gecko. I enjoy presenting, teaching, writing, traveling, and running very early in the mornings.

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Child's Craft

Create like the Creator

As I was running trails with my dog one day, I was overcome with awe at the beauty, the intricacies, the details, and variety of all of God’s creations. What an incredible creator He is! And isn’t it amazing that since He made us in His image, He made us creators as well? Don’t you think He loves it when we create? When we use the talents He has given us to create something out of nothing?

Have you ever heard a song that completely touched your heart? That brought you to worship right where you were? Or how about a painting, a sculpture, a child’s finger painting, a brilliant innovative invention that revealed God’s hand at work?

I remember when I was in India, two of my team mates brought construction paper, stickers and gems for the children to create crowns. My team mates explained to the children that they were children of God, children of the King of Kings which made them princes and princesses. These crowns they created served to remind them of who they were in Christ. I loved watching these poorest of the poor Indian children create their beautiful sparkly crowns and wear them with pride.

As writers, we have this amazing privilege to create stories, images, blogs, articles, or whatever it is to highlight God’s majesty, showcase His love and illustrate His grace and mercy. What an honor that is. As children’s writers our books may be the ones that help form a child’s image of God and who He is. Our writing may help form their foundations of right and wrong, draw them to Jesus, possibly clarify Bible stories, demonstrate how to help others, how to tell the truth, to be kind to others, or whatever else God puts on your heart to write. These are the books and stories that children need today!

Don’t hold back my friends. Don’t resist writing your inspiration because it’s been done before, you think you won’t be able to write it as well as others, you feel like it will never be published. If God has placed something on your heart, then do your part and write it. Let God do with it what He will, but get it written.

And write it well. Get the idea on paper as it comes to you. But don’t submit the rough draft. We are to give our best to God, so make it beautiful! Make it strong! Make it touch the heart, move someone to tears, elicit a giggle. Make it flow, come full circle, teach without preaching, and make it enjoyable to read. Rewrite it then rewrite it again. Have it critiqued then rewrite from the critiques. Make it sing!

God gave us His best in all of His creations. Let’s give Him our best with the gifts and talents He has given to us.

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The E’s of Writing for Children

The E’s of writing for children does not equate with ease of writing for children, but includes elements to help your writing stand out.

I’ve researched children’s books and have found that most published children’s books fall into at least one of four categories, if not overlapping into several. So, it seems that as writers, we should write manuscripts that fall into at least one these same categories. I’ve made it simple so that all you have to remember is the letter E. All of these categories begin with that letter. So, children’s books should:

Entertain – These books should take children to other worlds, help them escape from their reality if only for a few moments, should enlighten their lives. These books bring enjoyment at some level, wonder, excitement, amusement. It doesn’t have to be a fantasy book to take children away. It just needs to quickly put them into a different setting, or make them laugh, help them to think differently, or at some level amuse them. There might not be any educational matter in these books but their highlight is that they simply entertain.

Educate – Books do not need to be scholarly books to educate. The best books educate children without the children realizing they are being educated. Can your books show the love of Jesus, the wonder of God, the downfall of boasting, ways to get healthy, to serve or to love through entertaining stories? Think of Dr. Seuss’ Yertle the Turtle, which focuses on the downfall of greed and Gertrude McFuzz which is a fabulous story for children about vanity. The Tooth Book which is a fun lesson in the importance of caring for your teeth. Can you find a way to extract a lesson from your story without the kids realizing their being taught?

Esteem – Who doesn’t like reading books to children that remind them that they are loved, they matter, there is a purpose for them, and that they are cherished? God Made You Just Right by Jill Roman Lord, focuses on how special and unique each child is. Guess How Much I Love You by Sam McBratney reminds a child how much they are loved by a parent. You Are Special by Max Lucado enforces that God cherishes each child. All of our children need to be reminded that they are special, loved and unique.

Encouragement – I love the book It’s Hard to be five, by Jamie Lee Curtis. This meets the kids where they are, helps them learn self-control and shows that it’s not easy with what they are going through but that they can make it through. Does your book help a child keep his chin up, hold on another day, promote helping others in need, to love more, to try again? There is certainly a need for more of these books.

Children’s books should also elicit an Emotion of some kind. Maybe an ‘aha’ moment. In another post, I mentioned this as the ‘gut’ factor. Is there a moment in your book that might take the reader’s breath away, bring back a memory, cause them to break out into laughter, gasp, say, “awww”, perhaps elicit a tear? This adds a tenderness, an unexpected surprise. This is an element that I would suggest should be evident in all children’s books.

There you have it. The E’s of writing children’s books. Good luck! And let me know below, any other categories I may have missed.

 

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Children’s Writing 101: Five Common Misconceptions by Michelle Medlock Adams

 

Every time I teach “Writing for Children” at a writers’ conference or teach a “Children’s Writing 101” class at a university, I am asked some of the same questions so I’ve decided to address five of the most common myths surrounding this genre.

They say “the truth shall set you free,” so get ready to experience some freedom in this blog. J

Number one:

  • MYTH: Writing books for children is much easier than writing books for adults.
  • TRUTH: Good writing is tough no matter what genre we’re talking about; however, writing for children can be one of the most difficult to master and one of the most difficult to break into—but you can do it!

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*You have to say a lot in so few words—must make every single word count!

*You must be selective in word choice so that each word matches grade level. (Get a copy of the “Children’s Writer’s Word Book” by Alijandra Mogilner, published by Writer’s Digest Books.)

*It’s highly competitive! (The average national publisher receives 6,000 -15,000 unsolicited manuscripts a year, and of those, they publish 2-3. The rest of the books they publish come from agents, from authors they’re already publishing, and from other authors they meet at conferences.) But, you can do it!!! J

*I recently read an interview with a children’s book editor at Bloomsbury Children’s Books in NYC and the interviewer asked her, “Is there really a slush pile? If so, how many manuscripts would you estimate are in it?”

She replied, “It is many piles. It is huge! And I have no idea—maybe a thousand manuscripts in it.”

Then she was asked, “What percentage of manuscripts from the slush pile do you estimate get published?”

She answered, “Less than 1 percent but that’s still a real number—we get thousands of submission a year, and every year, we find one or two great things in it.”

So, you could be in that 1 percent!

FAST STATS: GOOD NEWS!!

E-books are giving children’s writers more opportunities to publish their work! In fact, 11 million parents have purchased an e-book and 19.6 million parents plan to buy an e-book in the future, according to recent stats.

Number two:

  • MYTH: Children’s stories should always teach a lesson.
  • TRUTH: Children (as well as children’s book editors) dislike preachy books.

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*Good children’s books usually have a message woven throughout the text, but the story is what drives the text. Of course…there is an exception to every rule. J

*Good example…Veggie Tales books teach good morals, but they are fun, silly and kid-friendly while doing so!

INTERESTING FACTOID…

Want to see a list of best-selling children’s books? Read this article at: http://www.timeout.com/new-york-kids/things-to-do/the-50-best-books-for-kids?cmpid=ppcaw-Kids-Books

online.

Number three:

  •  MYTH: The adult in the story should solve the problem.
  • TRUTH: Actually, any adult in the story is simply a sidekick. The main character must

be the child, and that child must solve the problem. He can certainly take advice from an

adult, but the child needs to do the problem solving.

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*Through our books, we want to empower the child, not tell the child that an adult must always solve every problem. We want to instill the message of “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”—in a sneaky, funny, kid-friendly way!

Number four:

  •  MYTH: After I write my children’s story, I need to find an illustrator to illustrate my story before submitting it anywhere.
  • TRUTH: Unless you are a professional artist yourself, it’s not wise to send pictures with your manuscripts. In fact, it might even hurt your chances for publication.

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*The editor might really love your words but despise the artwork that your sister did to accompany each page. Her yucky artwork could nix the whole deal for you.

*Editors at publishing houses already have a list of talented illustrators that they love to use, so let them choose your artist.

*Especially if you’re a first-time children’s author, the publisher will try to pair you with a better-known illustrator to improve your chances for better book sales.

Number five:

  • MYTH: Writing my book in rhyme will give my book a better chance.
  • TRUTH: Actually, it could hurt your story’s publication chances. Some editors despise rhyme because they receive so many poorly written rhyming books; therefore,they are prejudiced AGAINST rhyme. However, if you can write rhyme well, go for it!

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*FYI: I have sold more than 40 children’s books to publishers such as Zonderkidz, Simon & Schuster, Ideals Children’s Books and Concordia, and all but my non-fiction library books are written in rhyme! J

*Rhyme isn’t a crime, as some editors would have you think— it sells well! (Just get yourself a rhyming dictionary for help!)