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Stand Alone

Are you hesitant to stand alone – to risk being unpopular, rejected, or mocked? Do you hold back with what you’re writing to try and make it “fit” with what you think is acceptable?

A while back, Don and I attended an excellent conference at The Cove with my parents. The speaker, Pastor Jim Henry, was teaching on Joshua – conference title “From Fear to Faith”. Pastor Jim gave us many nuggets of wisdom to take home. He shared about the different tests Joshua passed on his way to being one of the greatest leaders in the Old Testament.

My favorite one: Can you stand alone?

Joshua came back excited about the promised land; 10 out of 12 said, “No, we can’t do this.” Then Joshua led the people in the “battle” of Jericho with a totally illogical battle plan.

He followed God, not popular opinion. He feared God, not man.

The Lord then showed me how easily I followed the crowd instead of my own heart. He showed me how fear of man held me down.

A wonderfully talented worship leader, Joe Horness, led worship for the conference. Through his music and his testimonies, the presence of God filled the room. During one upbeat song, I felt the urge to clap rise up in my soul. I thought, “OK, I’ll be the first one to start,” with the implication that others would follow as they usually do.

Well, they didn’t.

After a few loud claps, I sucked in my breath and hesitated…and quieted my clapping to a barely audible hand pat. My thoughts panicked – “WhatwilltheythinkAmIdisturbinganyoneMaybethisisn’ttheplacetoclap”.

Then the Lord nudged my spirit. Wait. I want to clap. I enjoy clapping. For me, right now, this song, it is part of my worship to God.

So it doesn’t matter if anyone claps, or sings, or even worships. *I* can clap, even if no one else follows.

I can stand alone.

At that moment, I made a decision. I clapped, and sang, and worshipped the Lord freely from my heart. Something changed. No, *I* changed. The Lord changed me. With one simple act of obedience to freely worship Him and not fear man, He broke off something, filled me up, and healed my heart.

Yes, clapping to a song in a room full of fellow believers may be a very small thing. But hey, it’s a start! Some days are better than others as I try to walk forward with more boldness, and as I learn to live more fully in each moment. I want to live in fear of God, not fear of man; and that’s SO hard sometimes. By God’s grace I am making progress.

I’m also learning to trust God to speak to and through me as I write and share with others. As me – not as anyone else, or with anyone else’s style, but from the heart as God gives me the words. No matter who disagrees, who criticizes, or even who likes what I say – I can’t be driven by positive feedback either. I want to hear “well done, good and faithful servant!” from my Father, and I can only hear that if I am living to please Him and not everyone else…including myself!

Where do you have trouble standing alone? Take courage, and look up at the Lord instead of others, and then be amazed at what He can do with your simple act of obedience.

Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ. (Galatians 1:10)

Merry Christmas to all, and Happy Birthday, Jesus!

Mary Graziano Scro, a graduate of Christian Communicators Conference, is an inspirational author, speaker, and blogger who intuitively weaves analogies and personal testimony with practical biblical teaching. Whether “live” or at the keyboard, Mary loves sharing what God has done in her life to encourage others about the awesome life God has planned for us, IF we are willing to choose wisely in our everyday lives (John 8:31-32). And it’s not only about us – the more we invest in our own unique relationship with Jesus, the more visible He is to a world that desperately needs Him.

You can reach Mary on:

Facebook: Mary Graziano Scro https://www.facebook.com/don.mary.scro

Twitter: @marygscro

LinkedIn: Mary Graziano Scro  https://www.linkedin.com/pub/mary-scro/11/600/a4b

Blogs: Life Is Not A Formula at www.marygscro.com

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Give Thanks in Every Situation

I’m so glad we have this time of year to remind us to count our blessings! All through the Bible, we are instructed to be thankful. But not only that, we are instructed to give thanks in every situation. I like the Amplified version of these verses:

Rejoice always and delight in your faith; be unceasing and persistent in prayer;  in every situation [no matter what the circumstances] be thankful and continually give thanks to God; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus. (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, emphasis mine)

Looking back, I realize that everything that happened to me, good or bad, contributed to who I am today. Every.single.thing. Divorce, abuse, friendships gone bad, heartache, all of it, I am thankful for all of it. Of course, it’s easy to look back and be thankful, now that I can see with perspective and I can see the fruit that resulted. The difficulty is choosing to be thankful in the middle of a rough time.

  • An editor or agent rejects your manuscript
  • You become suddenly ill and can’t work
  • A friend betrays your trust
  • You lose a loved one
  • Accidents, loss of job, writer’s block, the list is endless

Yes, thanking God for a tough time is the last thing we all feel like doing! But by the grace of God and by choosing to be obedient, it’s not only possible but it’s incredibly freeing and peace-bringing (a new word for you!). I don’t always jump into thanksgiving right away, and I often go kicking and screaming (so to speak). I’m so thankful for those times I can be thankful in the midst of a rough time…and what I learn about God in the process.

So back to 1 Thessalonians 5:18 – it’s not hypocritical to give thanks when you’re suffering through difficult and hard circumstances. It’s obedient. Because when we’re thankful, we’re demonstrating faith that says, “I have no idea what is going on…but I trust YOU do and will get me through.” One of my favorite Psalms is Psalm 13 – short and to the point.

How long, O Lord? Will You forget me forever?
How long will You hide Your face from me?

How long must I take counsel in my soul,
Having sorrow in my heart day after day?
How long will my enemy exalt himself and triumph over me?

Consider and answer me, O Lord my God;
Give light (life) to my eyes, or I will sleep the sleep of death,

And my enemy will say, “I have overcome him,”
And my adversaries will rejoice when I am shaken.

But I have trusted and relied on and been confident in Your lovingkindness and faithfulness;
My heart shall rejoice and delight in Your salvation.

I will sing to the Lord, 
Because He has dealt bountifully with me.

When I read this Psalm (and many others!), I realize God doesn’t expect us to deny our feelings and pretend things are OK when they’re not. What He wants is honesty: “God, this is HARD!! I’m hurting, I can’t see you, I’m afraid, what do I do now??”  And then He delights in our confession of faith in Him through choosing to sing praises and give thanks regardless of the hurt and fear. We sing because of Who He is, and we thank Him for sending Jesus to die for our sins so we can live and reign with Him forever.

No matter what happens on this earth, our eternity with Jesus is secure.

Perspective. We know the end of the Story.  In every situation, give thanks.

What are you thankful for this Thanksgiving?

 

Mary Graziano Scro, a graduate of Christian Communicators Conference, is an inspirational author, speaker, and blogger who intuitively weaves analogies and personal testimony with practical biblical teaching. Whether “live” or at the keyboard, Mary loves sharing what God has done in her life to encourage others about the awesome life God has planned for us, IF we are willing to choose wisely in our everyday lives (John 8:31-32). And it’s not only about us – the more we invest in our own unique relationship with Jesus, the more visible He is to a world that desperately needs Him.

You can reach Mary on:

Facebook: Mary Graziano Scro https://www.facebook.com/don.mary.scro

Twitter: @marygscro

LinkedIn: Mary Graziano Scro  https://www.linkedin.com/pub/mary-scro/11/600/a4b

Blogs: Life Is Not A Formula at www.marygscro.com

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Do You Live Your Message?

Yesterday I was pondering on the way to work – nothing specific, just talking to God and thinking. A very old song came to mind by Peter Scholtes, They’ll Know We Are Christians (listen here for a remake by Jars of Clay). It was written during the 1960’s Jesus movement so the musical style may be outdated but the lyrics are spot on for today’s culture.

Got me thinking about my writing, and my life, and are the two in sync (so to speak). Do I live – day in and day out – what I write about?

I write and share on Facebook Live things the Lord shows me – what He teaches me, how He changes me, and lessons I’ve learned. Like many of you, my writing and teaching comes directly from life experiences.

Soooooo….what about when I’m not in a teaching moment? What about when I am just out and about, woman on the streets? Or when I’m at home with my family?

Like when someone cuts me off in traffic, or drives 10 miles under the speed limit? Do I growl at them and make faces and say a few choice words in their direction?

What about work, how do I respond or react to gossip, or to badmouthing the boss, or to any sort of complaining and negative talk? Do I listen in and nod in agreement, or maybe even join in?

Oh, and yes, and when someone takes that last parking spot by pulling right in front of me? Do I honk the horn and show my best mad face?

Or waiting in long lines to check out, and maybe the sales clerk makes a mistake that makes my wait that much longer. Am I  impatient, self-righteous, and borderline rude?

And last but not least, how do I treat those closest to me, especially my husband, when they do something I don’t like?

I’m sure you can think of many times when people just push.your.buttons!

When they do, do they get light or darkness?

If someone met you anywhere in public, then saw you at church, would they be surprised to see you were a Christian? Will they know you’re a Christian by your love no matter where they may meet you? Do you live your message, day in and day out?

I remember hearing a famous speaker talk about trying to get the last table in a diner. She put her competitive shoes on and raced to the door, gloating as she reached it before the other person. Yes! (fist bump) She got her table!

Then someone in the restaurant recognized her, “Hey, aren’t you Polly Popular Speaker?” Heads turned toward her as her head bowed in shame at what they just witnessed.

I’ve been there. I’m not famous, but I’ve been in a snit, so to speak, and treated someone abruptly. Then I ran into them at church, or had them tell me they read my blog and enjoyed it. It’s very humbling, to say the least.

What about you? Would you embrace seeing someone at a conference or a book signing who remembered you from running into you somewhere else? Or would you have to jog your memory to see what they might remember about you?

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You never know who may be watching you. But you know Who is always watching: your loving Creator who gifted you and created you to shine! Live for His glory and love others, and the message from your heart will reflect His glory.

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.  In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.  (Matthew 5:14-16 NIV, emphasis mine)

 

Mary Graziano Scro, a graduate of Christian Communicators Conference, is an inspirational author, speaker, and blogger who intuitively weaves analogies and personal testimony with practical biblical teaching. Whether “live” or at the keyboard, Mary loves sharing what God has done in her life to encourage others about the awesome life God has planned for us, IF we are willing to choose wisely in our everyday lives (John 8:31-32). And it’s not about us – the more we invest in our own unique relationship with Jesus, the more visible He is to a world that desperately needs Him. You can reach Mary on:

Facebook: Mary Graziano Scro https://www.facebook.com/don.mary.scro

Twitter: @marygscro

LinkedIn: Mary Graziano Scro  https://www.linkedin.com/pub/mary-scro/11/600/a4b

Blogs: Life Is Not A Formula at www.marygscro.com

 

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Hike Your Own Hike

My husband Don is starting his Appalachian Trail (AT) hike on March 13th. He’s had this passion on his heart for a few years now, and it’s finally time to go. For the past year or so he’s been preparing and learning – he talked to people who hiked it, read books, and watched documentaries.

From all that information he pulled what he liked, put together his equipment, and made his plans. He tested out a few things, made changes, and adjusted as he learned something new.

One of the things he heard repeatedly was, “Hike your own hike.” People you meet will be faster, have better equipment, seem to be experts at hiking the AT. The pressure to conform, to fit in, and to keep up may be heavy at times. Be prepared for that and make up your mind to do whatever feels right to you.

So what does hiking have to do with writing…more specifically, blogging? Every now and then I get into a funk about my blogging and begin comparing my blog to others. I compare numbers: comments, followers, shares. I compare writing styles, lengths, format, and pictures. I lamented these frustrations to Don, along with all the things I could/should/but am not doing.

“Mary, you need to hike your own hike.”

Silence.

“Wow, thanks honey, you are absolutely right!”

I need to learn: talk to others, read tips and advice, and check out other blogs. Learn how to get my blog into the readers’ hands – what social media has worked for others and how do they find their audience.

I need to apply what I learn: pull what I like from all the information on blogging and apply it to my blog and my social media interaction.

I need to be willing to make adjustments: when one social media platform doesn’t yield results, be willing to try a new platform.

Then as I blog, I need to hike my own hike: passionately write in my own style. Write about topics God stirs in my heart. Write on the schedule He gives to me.

Blog as me, not as a poor imitation of someone else out of envy for what they have that I don’t.

Don will meet a variety of people on his hike, some like him and some not so much. I can’t imagine him trying to be like everyone he meets; that doesn’t even make sense. It would wear him out, AND people would miss out on all Don has to offer as Don.

I realized I do the same thing with blogging when I don’t write as me, and when I worry too much about what others are doing. And yes, it totally wears me out!blogging, envy

God has uniquely gifted each of us who blog. Study, learn, and seek God for what will work for you. Be thankful for who He created you to be.

Then go out and hike your own hike.

A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. (Proverbs 14:30, NIV)