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The Power of Networking: Building Meaningful Connections in the Writing Community

Writing can feel like a solitary career at times. After all, it’s just you, the keyboard, and your ideas for most of the workday. Writing alone is typically the best way to get the bulk of your work done, too, as you don’t want to be surrounded by distractions when you should be writing.

In reality, however, writing is a community-oriented pursuit. Even relatively solitary authors, like Jack Kerouac and Ernest Hemingway, had The Beats (Ginsberg, Burrows, Kaufman) and the Lost Generation (Stein, Fitzgerald, Eliot) for company.

As a writer, you can follow in the footsteps of these literary giants by creating a writing community of your own. Even simple community-building exercises, like joining local book clubs and writing groups, can significantly improve the quality of your prose and the power of your poetry.

Networking and Your Career

Finding a supportive group of writerly friends is a great way to expand your network and find new opportunities. Building a network shows clients and employers that you’re serious about entering the writing industry and that you have what it takes to produce perfect prose and stylistically satisfying sentences.

Building a network should be a core element of creating a career plan, too. Networking allows you to create useful dialogues with colleagues and peers that will serve you well in years to come. This can be invaluable during the job search and application phase, as folks who know you will be able to vouch for your skills and support your long-term vision.

Finding a Mentor

If you want to speed up your career progression, you should consider finding a trusted mentor in your niche. A good mentor can help you spot upcoming opportunities and may play a crucial role in helping you land new clients.

As a creative, asking for help can be powerful, too. When you ask a more experienced peer for help, you show that you’re in need of aid and are willing to work hard in order to overcome barriers. This will build stronger connections with your peers and enhance your emotional well-being (as it always feels good to have a trusted mentor in your corner!). If you’re considering approaching a prospective mentor, get the ball rolling by:

  • Being specific about the areas of aid you need
  • Offer plenty of gratitude for any help you receive
  • Be open to feedback and be willing to explore shortcomings you didn’t know you had
  • Stay in touch with trusted mentors, as they’ll be invaluable when you have a tricky decision to make

Finding a good mentor can make a world of difference to your writing efforts. Just be sure to offer plenty of gratitude, too, as most mentors will work with you for little-to-no pay if you’re respectful of their time.

How to Offer Feedback

At some point, you and your newfound writerly friends are going to swap manuscripts or exchange drafts. This is a sign of trust from your peers, as they are willing to show you a part of their work that is raw and unfinished.

Should you be fortunate enough to be trusted with a first draft, resist the urge to be overly brutal in your feedback, as this is a major misstep that many young writers make. For reasons that are unclear, many novice writers mistake blunt honesty for valuable feedback. Being overly critical of your feedback takes the wind out of your writing friend’s sails and is almost certain to detract from their passion for writing. Instead, try to:

  • Be overwhelmingly positive and point out what is working well. Many writers don’t know what they’re doing well and rely on readers to show them what’s working.
  • Be clear when making critiques but use polite, kind language to overcome the emotional attachment that writers have to their first drafts.
  • Offer resources to your writing friends if you spot a recurring mistake. For example, if you notice that your friend uses comma splices when writing, you should consider typing up something like “I noticed a few comma splices throughout this piece. It may be that it’s just a first draft and that you’ll fix the errors later, but here’s a handy resource you can use to learn more about comma splices and how to fix them.”

Utilizing these tips helps you make friends in the local writing scene, too. Folks are unlikely to promote your work if you’re unnecessarily mean—even if you have perfect prose. Instead, invest in your network by providing feedback that is timely, kind, and authentically useful.

Conclusion

Building meaningful connections in the writing community can be a real boon if you’re new to the industry. Get started by showing up to book clubs and writing groups, as you’re sure to start making connections and community-oriented events. Once you’ve started to build relationships, offer feedback that is overwhelmingly positive and authentically useful to your peers.

Amanda Winstead is a writer from the Portland area with a background in communications and a passion for telling stories. Along with writing she enjoys traveling, reading, working out, and going to concerts. If you want to follow her writing journey, or even just say hi you can find her on Twitter.

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A3 Contributor Book Release The Intentional Writer

Three Lessons from Writing My Second Novel

I’m excited to share my new release, Fountains and Secrets, with my Almost an Author family, along with a few things I’ve learned along the way.

The Book

Introducing a new mystery set in the world of the early church. Fountains and Secrets is the second book in the Livia Aemilia Mystery series. Like the first book in the series, Fountains and Secrets features a spunky female sleuth and her sassy sidekick, who aren’t afraid to be a little unconventional in pursuit of the truth. They are aided in their investigative endeavors by a motley collection of friends, servants, and a couple of strays (human and feline).  

For readers who enjoy mysteries and historical fiction with a touch of humor, Fountains and Secrets is quirky, clever, and engaging tale of identity, purpose, and hope.

Fountains and Secrets by Lisa E. Betz

And what have I learned about writing and promoting as I’ve worked through bringing two books to print? There are too many lessons to share in one post, but here are three I hope will encourage you as you continue on your author journey.

Writing a series isn’t as easy as I thought

In the mystery genre, series are normal, so I had planned from the beginning on writing a series of Livia Aemilia books. I was expecting the second book to be easier, since I already knew the main characters and had a feel for the tone and setting.

It didn’t turn out that way.

Working on the first book, my heroine’s voice seemed to come naturally, so I assumed it would come as naturally in the next one. Nope. It took me several false starts before I dialed in the right tone for Fountains and Secrets.

I thought that after having written one mystery, plotting the second one would be easier. Maybe. I think I had a better idea of what would make a good mystery story, but actually plotting the book proved just as challenging as my first attempt. Apparently, I still have a lot to learn about creating a plot from scratch, which means I must do a lot of rewriting along the way to until I get a plot into shape.

Despite these challenges, I persevered. With the help of good feedback, my characters came to life again and the plot eventually fell into place.  

I hope my experience will encourage any of you who are struggling with your next writing project. Book two wasn’t as easy to write as I’d hoped, but early feedback says it’s a better story than the first book.

And that tells me the work was worth it.  

Generosity and networking are important.

As in most of life, you reap what you sow. At some point you will need to have kindhearted authors who are willing to support you in a promoting your book in some way. How do you find these magical people?

First of all, you need to meet them and interact with them. This could be a face-to-face conversation at a writers conference, or it could be a relationship built over time while corresponding online through a writer’s group or through writing for blogs like Almost an Author.

Next, you have to be generous in promoting and supporting other writers. When you do willingly promote others with no strings attached, you are advancing God’s kingdom by helping get truth out into the world.

And you are also sowing goodwill, which you can reap late when you need help. For more thoughts on how you can be a generous writer, read this post.

Writing contests can be a good investment

Opinions differ on the value of entering your work in writing contests. Some experts say that it’s a waste of time to enter your book in any but the most prestigious contests.

I disagree.

I admit that becoming a finalist in a writing contest hasn’t made a significant impact in book sales, BUT (and this is a big but) it has made a significant impact on my author journey. Among other things, placing in writing contests boosts your resume, may snag the attention of an agent or publisher, and is noteworthy news that can be used in press releases and social media.

In addition to the practical reasons, being named a finalist in a contest, no matter how small, can make a difference in the tender heart of a writer. Winning an award in a small writers’ conference is worth something to our creative souls, regardless of whether it ever shows up on a resume or in ad copy.

Now for my experience with contests. I entered several manuscripts over the years in the ACFW First Impressions and Genesis contests. Each gave me valuable feedback on the manuscripts. On my third attempt, I was thrilled to become a finalist in the Genesis contest (mystery category). Shortly after that, I was offered a publishing contract for the manuscript, which became my first novel, Death and a Crocodile.

At my publisher’s suggestion, I entered the book in several contests, and was named a finalist in several of them. I cannot tell you how much it means to a beginning, completely unknown author, to be able to say that my book won an award. It was a validation of both the book and of me, and if gave me a much-needed boost of confidence to promote my book to bookstore owners and others.

Finally, it feels really good to be able to write “award-winning author” and “award-winning book”!

For advice on choosing and winning writing contests, I suggest you check out this Serious Writer Academy class.

Lisa E Betz

An engineer-turned-mystery-writer, Lisa E. Betz infuses her novels with authentic characters who thrive on solving tricky problems. Her debut novel, Death and a Crocodile, won several awards, including Golden Scroll Novel of the Year (2021). Her second novel, Fountains and Secrets released January 2022, from Redemption Press.

Lisa combines her love of research with her quirky imagination to bring the world of the early church to life. She and her husband reside outside Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, with Scallywag, their rambunctious cat—the inspiration for Nemesis, resident mischief maker in the Livia Aemilia Mysteries. Lisa sorts book donations at the library, directs church dramas, eats too much chocolate, and experiments with ancient Roman recipes.

In addition to writing novels, Lisa blogs about living with authenticity and purpose. Visit her website: Quietly Unconventional. Or visit her social media: Facebook , Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, Goodreads.

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Writing with a Disability (Different Ability)

What You Have to Offer

Last month I attended an annual writers conference to learn more about the craft and pitch my nonfiction books. Writing conferences are more than just networking opportunities.

  • We can learn more about the craft.
  • We can learn more about the business of writing.
  • We get to meet professionals within the business.

Personally, this year allowed me to meet with others within the brain injury and disability communities. It seemed like every day I met someone new who was connected to the disabled community; whether it was survivors, therapists, or family members, it seemed like there was an opportunity to share my story everywhere I turned.

One day I had planned on pitching my book to an agent during mealtime. Since she was so into my book’s message, I decided to drop the bomb about my brain injury. To my surprise, she shared she had a family member who suffered a brain injury while serving in the military. Needless to say, she was interested in working with me because she knows what I have to offer.

What You Have To Offer!

I have lived with a brain injury now for almost 25 years and have worked within the disability community to help others. At the conference, it became clearer that I have a lot to offer others through my experience.

One of the basic teachings of writing is always think reader first. The principle is simple: since we each have something we want to share with others: a message, purpose, something to offer others. Whether you write fiction or nonfiction, there’s something deep inside you want to share with others.

Your experiences shape your unique message, focus, and even your voice. Everything I have gone through and experienced since my accident 24 years ago has uniquely shaped my personality and passions. In this sense, it is given me more to offer others.

The same dynamics work in the writing community. Each of our personal experiences, beliefs, and even struggles give us a unique perspective. We each have invaluable information that no one else can offer.

Whenever I work with other disabled persons, I get to share my experiences while also learning from their’s. This is why networking is an invaluable opportunity for writers. It gives us a chance to learn from established writers and gives us an opportunity to establish ourselves. Below are more benefits of networking.

1. Strengthen business connections.

2. Get fresh ideas.

3. Raise your profile

4. Advance your career

5. Get access to job opportunities

6. Gain more knowledge

7. Get career advice and support

8. Build confidence

9. Gain a different perspective

10. Develop long-lasting personal relationships

11. Get an answer to every question

12. Find a job you love1

As we can see, the need for connecting with each other serves many purposes. Before leaving for the conference, I was contacted by an online brain health community about possibly teaching a class or sharing information on living with a brain injury.

I may not be a trained expert, but I have over 24 years of experience living with a brain injury. Undoubtedly, I have a lot to offer others within the brain injury community, I’m eager and happy to share with others.

A community is at its strongest when we each are willing to share our experiences. Earlier this year I began to update and expand my YouTube channel to cover my four branding streams (brain health, the writing community, men’s ministry, and faith.) My goal was simply to use this medium to share each aspect of what I have to offer. Each month I learned something new about my passions and myself.

Be Yourself!

The best way to know what you have to offer is to think about your experiences, passions, and struggles. Each area is a particular facet that makes you unique.

One of my favorite writing quotes is, “Be the best you instead of the second-best version of someone else!” Living with a disability has made me keenly aware that I am not perfect, but I am the perfect me.

I may not have the education, experiences, resources or platform as other writers, but I still have a lot to offer others. Unique perspective.

  • Hope in trials.
  • Encouragement for the struggle.
  • A listening ear in the struggle.

I want to leave you with a reminder that our imperfections are what make us who we are. Take the time to think about your life, mistakes and all—it won’t take long to see what you have to offer.

Martin Johnson survived a severe car accident with a (T.B.I.) Traumatic brain injury which left him legally blind and partially paralyzed on the left side. He is an award-winning Christian screenwriter who has recently finished his first Christian nonfiction book. Martin has spent the last nine years volunteering as an ambassador and promoter for Promise Keepers ministries. While speaking to local men’s ministries he shares his testimony. He explains The Jesus Paradigm and how following Jesus changes what matters most in our lives. Martin lives in a Georgia and connects with readers at MartinThomasJonhson.com and on Twitter at mtjohnson51.


1  https://www.michaelpage.com.au/advice/career-advice/career-progression/benefits-networking

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12 simple and powerful tips for successful freelancing

Working for yourself has its own set of rewards and can be extremely lucrative. Being self-employed means being responsible for the money that you make and the amount is dependent on your ability and the kind of work which you’ll do.

Since the pandemic, many individuals have turned into freelancing to earn an extra income. In this article we’re going to give you several important tips on how to boost your career as a freelancer.

12 simple tips on how to become a successful freelancer

Becoming a freelancer isn’t an easy task. It’s like managing a business only your employee is you. The money you make will depend on the kind and amount of work that you do.

1. Plan of action – As a freelancer it can be very easy to take long breaks and blame it on not being able to find work. When you have a detailed plan of action in place, you will likely work according to that. Create various plans of actions based on your daily goals, your weekly, monthly, yearly and 5 plans. It’s also important to set realistic expectations and plans otherwise you’ll be disappointed when your plans don’t come to fruition.

2. Build your own brand – Building a brand takes time and requires resources before people start recognizing you for your work. As a freelancer, look for ways to enhance your CV. Ask yourself questions like is this the best way to build my website, how do I make my blogs better, how do I gain more visibility. Everything you put online is a means of acquiring more business and hence more money as a freelancer. Clients are more likely to hire those who have a proven track record so get those positive reviews so that you can gain clientele even through word of mouth advertising.

3. Be wise when quoting your price – When it comes to freelancing work there are mainly two types of payments that are done. Hourly and per project basis. You know the amount of work that goes into the completion of a project. The opportunity for a client to nitpick and negotiate an hourly rate and for the client to make comparisons about the work and the time it takes in its completion. Having said that, you know what works best for you as a freelancer so decide on a payment method that’s comfortable to you.

4. Setting up a system that works for you – Throughout your freelancing career, there’ll come many obstacles which you’ll have to overcome and things become 10 times more difficult if things haven’t been organized properly. Set up systems such as an invoice system, mark dates on your calendars, track your work record and find a filing system that works for you and makes your life that much easier. Use calendars to mark important meeting dates or to mark work events. These things will help you keep a track of the work that you’ve done and will also help when it comes to filing taxes.

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5. Networking – As a freelancer, the onus of finding work rests on you. The more you network with your industry professionals the chances of you getting work increase. It’s also important to network with fellow freelancers as you can get many important job leads through them. While some of you may want to stay away from other freelancers from your industry, it’s a better strategy to work with them, build on their contacts and share the success rather than doing everything alone.

6. Learn to say no – It may be tempting to say yes to every work offer than comes your way but know your limits. It’s better to say no to a project while already working on something and giving it justice rather than taking on multiple projects and giving none of them any justice. Also, try to visualize how you want your work to be and focus on doing work related to that. You’ll have to adapt and change a few things along the way, however don’t completely stray off topic because it’s difficult to achieve success when being pulled towards multiple directions.

7. Make sure to have the terms and conditions written down – This point is often overlooked by freelancers when it shouldn’t. When you get on board with an agency or a client, make sure to have the terms and conditions of the work written down tight down to the payments. One problem many freelancers face is the issue of payments. A lot of the time payments are delayed or employers give less amount of money that was agreed upon. To save yourself from situations like these, it’s always better to have a written contract rather than a verbal one.

8. Create an LLC – While this may sound extreme, here us out. LLC or a limited liability company is a business structure wherein owners aren’t personally responsible for their companies debts or liability. An LLC will separate your business finances from your personal belongings and finances. This is just a precautionary step freelancers must take incase you get sued by the client. Another advantage of creating an LLC is that it makes taxing things much easier and also manageable.

9. Attend networking events – One way you can get more work is by attending networking events in your field. You can attend seminars, conduct seminars where you get to interact and connect with those from your field. Be on the lookout for events where you can meet potential clients. Once you are at these networking events, don’t shy away! Your main purpose of being there is to talk to as many people as possible, getting them interested in your work and making an impression.

10. Do a thorough research on your competitors – Spend as much time as you can getting to know your competitors. How they brand themselves on social media, how they find work and while you’re at it, also do thorough research on the kind of clients you want to work with. Getting an idea of what they’re looking for may give you ideas on how to better market your work and will eventually help you in acquiring new projects and clients to work with.

11. Set boundaries and take care of yourself – As freelancers it can be tempting for it to take over every aspect of your life and ignore the other essential things. Don’t let freelancing and overworking ruin your physical and mental health. Working up until the point of exhaustion won’t help you or your loved ones. One great thing with working as a freelancer is that you decide your own working hours and can therefore take breaks whenever necessary.

12. Don’t quit your day job immediately – If you’ve just started work as a freelancer then right now isn’t the right time to leave your day job in pursuit of becoming a full time freelancer and the reason behind this is that freelance work doesn’t guarantee you money every month like a day job does. Day jobs provide stability and a regular income source. You can only quit a job on good terms once you feel completely settled as a freelancer.

In Conclusion –

As with new things there will be a certain amount of getting used to this lifestyle. Working as a freelancer has its own set of advantages and disadvantages as does any other line of work. Freelancing will give you the freedom a regular 9-5 job won’t provide and it’s probably one of the reasons why more and more people are opting to be working as freelancers rather than just full time employees.

Ruby Smith

Ruby Smith is a career and productivity copywriter who believes in the power of networking. She’s passionate about blogging and writes web content for a variety of clients. She is currently dedicated to Online Jobs Academy as a gig worker, she understands the benefits and challenges of the industry. Blogging about education and career regarding ideas to grow is something that she loves doing.

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The Intentional Writer

Advice from a Debut Author

One month ago my first novel officially released. As you might guess, I am proud of finally achieving that goal!

Death and a Crocodile is a fast-paced mystery set in ancient Rome, featuring a feisty female sleuth, quirky humor, a glimpse of the early church, and a naughty, sausage-snatching cat. It was recently named a gold medal winner in the Illumination Book Awards mystery/thriller category.

Death and a Crocodile

In case you’re wondering, my meteoric rise to fame began long, long ago in a phase of life far far away from my current reality. (As in mother of toddlers to grandparent.)

Over the intervening years I’ve spent countless hours learning, writing, getting feedback, writing some more, attending conferences, building platform, and writing. Ten years ago I actually completed an entire novel manuscript. Four years ago I complete the manuscript that became my first novel. Two years ago that manuscript was a finalist in the ACFW Genesis award. One year ago I signed a contract for the book with CrossLink Publishing. And now here I am, at the start of my career as a published author.

Author interviews often include a question something like “What advice do you have for beginning authors?” Since I have just transitioned from unpublished author to published author, I thought I would take a stab at answering that question.

Believe in yourself and your stories

When I first discovered that I enjoyed creative writing, I wrote short articles and drama sketches. Sometimes I would work on a few scenes of a longer story, but I never got very far. Partly because I hadn’t yet learned how to structure a story, but mainly because I didn’t think anyone would want to read the stories I made up.

My inner critic whispered that no one wanted to read my stories. My plot ideas weren’t good enough. They were stupid, lame, boring, or too odd for anyone else to enjoy.

It took me years to get over this hurdle.

And it was only after I decided to believe my stories were worth reading that I began to take myself seriously as a writer. Only once I had moved past that mental hurdle could I risk my work being seen in critique groups or actually decide to finish an entire story manuscript.

Give yourself permission to be a beginner

You’ve probably heard the advice that you must turn off your inner critic and give yourself permission to write a “bad” first draft. I suggest you take that concept further and give yourself permission to write a “bad” first novel.

Let me clarify! By “bad” I don’t mean poorly written, or awful, or a piece of junk. I merely mean not yet good enough to be published. I call them practice novels. A practice novel is not bad. A practice novel is not a waste of time. I think of practices novels as a hands-on writing course that helps us learn and improve our craft.

I recognize that God has called some of you to write a specific book, and therefore you need to continue improving and polishing that manuscript until it is publishable. However, for many of us, and particularly those who write fiction, our calling is to be a teller of tales, not necessarily any one particular tale. Therefore, creating practice novels that helps us hone our skill and find our voice is a perfectly acceptable use of our time and talents. I have heard many successful authors mention the practice novels they wrote, which gave me mental permission to do the same. I wrote three practice novels before writing Death and a Crocodile.

Do you need to give yourself permission to call your manuscript a practice novel and set it aside to begin working on something better? And who knows, a plot point or character from a practice novel could always end up in a future work.

Network even if you don’t know what you’re doing.

I am a card-carrying introvert. I was not born with a networking gene. One of the things I hate most in life is feeling alone in a crowd of people. Attending any large social event drains my energy big-time. (Are you getting the picture?)

So attending writing groups or conferences is a HUGE stretch for me. But I do it.

Because interacting with other writers face-to-face is an important piece of growing as a writer. All of the one-on-one meetings I’ve had at Christian writing conferences have been encouraging, and several of those meetings have led to further interaction with helpful authors. Also, every time I have attended a live conference, the Lord has guided me to people I could befriend. So even though I’m not a natural networker, and I didn’t realize I was networking, I have collected writing acquaintances over the years that I can turn to for advice, encouragement, and even an endorsement or two.

In other words, attending writers’ groups and writing conferences enables God’s providence to operate and lead you to open doors.

An example of networking and God’s providence: A woman I befriended at a local writers’ group met Cyle Young through attending a writing conference. When he was starting Almost an Author, she heard about it and passed the word to me, so I was able to begin writing a column here. That led to Cyle becoming my literary agent. Which eventually landed me a publishing contract. See all that networking? And it began with me talking to ONE writing friend and making the effort to join a group writing blog. That’s all I thought I was doing, but God had bigger plans.

If you know any beginning writers, take the time to encourage them in whatever next step they need to take on their writing journey. Encourage them to believe in the worth of their stories. Or perhaps invite them to come along the next time you attend a writing event.

Lisa E. Betz worked as an engineer, substitute teacher, and play director before becoming an award-winning mystery writer. She brings her analytical mind, quirky humor, and positive outlook to all she writes. She draws inspiration from thirty-five years of leading Bible studies to create entertaining mysteries set in the world of the early church, and then she fills that world with eccentric characters, independent females, and an occasional sausage-snatching cat. Her first novel, Death and a Crocodile, garnered a gold medal in the Illumination Book Awards.

In addition to writing novels, Lisa blogs about living with authenticity and purpose. Visit her at www.lisaebetz.com. Facebook LisaEBetzWriter Twitter @LisaEBetz and Pinterest Lisa E Betz Intentional Living.

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Survival Tips for the Waiting Part of Writing Tip #22 – Find Your Fellow Tesserae and Stick Together (Part 1)

I am convinced that my writing journey is not just about me. God has a master plan to use the trials and the triumphs, the work and the wait, the refinement and the rejections—all for His glory. Part of that elaborate plan has involved connecting me with other writers. Like tesserae—the pieces of stone, tile, or glass used to construct a mosaic—God has strategically linked these writers’ journeys together with my own to form beautiful work of art.

It’s my pleasure to share my fellow tesserae with you in the next few posts in hopes that while you wait for publication they’ll become a part of your mosaic too. These writer friends all have a particular gift, skill-set, or unique insight that has brought balance to my writing journey.

My first guest tesserae is Becky Antkowiak. I met Becky at the BRMCWC in 2019 and was drawn to her radiating joy. She’s one of those people you just can’t help but like. We found an instant connection through our adoption stories and have been friends ever since. Unlike me, Becky is an extrovert extraordinaire. She has found a way to get the most out of connecting virtually during these trying times, and I asked her to share some of those valuable tips with us in the following interview:

1) What motivated you to dive in, do the research, and learn how to get the most out of virtual gatherings?

My time at Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference (2019) was the most fun I’d had in years—learning, meeting new friends, and finding my niche. When Covid forced the #BRMCWC2020 postponement, I was disappointed. When leadership announced the half-capacity-plus-virtual conference option for November 2020, I sobbed.

My husband was stymied. “Shouldn’t you be smiling? A virtual option is good news, right?”

“Yeah, but three hundred friends will be having fun without me!”

I knew I needed to take advantage of the virtual option (I have Lupus) but mourned the lost opportunity to connect. I prayed that God would “fix it” and make Covid go away, so I could attend in person.

God didn’t “fix it.” Instead, He nudged me to contact BRMCWC leadership. They graciously connected me with my co-host, Jaime Snell, and approved us to run Zoom sessions. Prior to November, I hadn’t run anything more than basic meetings. I watched Zoom tutorials and chatted with Zoom tech support to learn as much as I could, then prayed God would handle the rest. And He did. God provided everything we needed to help virtual attendees feel connected.

Direct access to faculty—during sessions, at meals, and in casual conversation—is one of BRMCWC’s unique advantages. As we scrambled to overcome the challenges Covid presented, we realized the virtual attendees wouldn’t be able to interact with faculty. Connecting people with resources (and with other people) is my passion; I wanted to ensure our virtual attendees didn’t miss out.

I reached out to some BRMCWC contacts and asked if they’d be willing to speak to our group. God prompted every person to say YES. I couldn’t be more grateful for the opportunity to connect friends with what they needed.

2) What are your top tips for getting the most out of a virtual conference and/or meeting?

Focus is the key to success during a virtual conference. Unlike an in-person conference, virtual conferences allow us to attend in our pajamas, run a load of laundry, grab a snack from the fridge, and manage fifteen other household issues while still attending. However, if we don’t plan and prepare, those perks can become drawbacks. A quick trip to the kitchen for coffee might morph into a thirty-minute “clean up after breakfast” detour. Even if we bring the laptop, we’re still not focused. “I’ll listen while I fold these towels,” results in missed information.

Preparing our minds, our environments, and (if applicable) our housemates ahead of time allows us to focus fully and take advantage of every minute. I wrote a series of posts at beckyantkowiak.com detailing ways to get the most from a virtual conference.

3) What advice do you have for authors who are camera shy and reluctant to participate on camera?

If you’re not thrilled by the idea of public speaking (online or in person), you’re in good company. According to a number of studies, fear of public speaking ranks ABOVE fear of death. (Seriously.)

Ideas for anyone reluctant to speak:

  • Prepare, prepare, prepare. If possible, ask for Q&A questions ahead of time.
  • Change the speaker view to reduce the number of attendees on your screen.
  • If you’re in charge of the meeting, ask someone to co-host.
  • Learn to navigate the meeting platform well ahead of time.

Ideas for anyone leading a meeting of people reluctant to speak:

  • Prepare your participants. Communicate expectations, responsibilities, and information at the beginning/prior to the meeting.
  • Invite participants to communicate via chat (either in a private message or “to all”). Then, verbally draw them out. “Karyn, you made a great point in the chat, and I want to make sure I don’t miscommunicate what you said. Do you mind sharing with the group? I think what you said is so important.” Often, knowing they won’t speak at the same time as someone else gives attendees the courage to turn off that mute button.
  • If you’re running a Q&A, tell participants, “If you have a question, type, ‘I have a question,’ in the chat, either publicly or directly to me. I’ll send you a direct message via chat when your turn approaches, so you can turn off your mute.” Then, follow through. First, private-message the person next in line to ask a question: “James, you’re after Kelly. As soon as she’s done, I’ll call on you, so please un-mute yourself.” Then, after the speaker has finished answering Kelly, alert the speaker (and provide a verbal prompt to your participant): “James has a question. Go ahead, James.”
  • When soliciting questions, remind participants of the limited time. “Please ask only one question until others have had a chance. If we have time, I’ll open the discussion for people to ask a second question.” This gently reminds extroverts not to railroad the meeting.

4) What benefits have you experienced from the virtual gatherings you have attended?

I’m a serial extrovert. If we make direct eye contact, I’ll consider us lifelong friends (you’ve been warned). More than once, when gatherings included multiple gals named Becky, I was labeled “the hugging Becky.”

I mention this to help you understand the absolute gift virtual connection has been for me in a world where I can’t hug my friends (or strangers). Because of my health, we’ve been extra careful. I’ve had in-person contact with only a handful of people since March.

After a while in semi-quarantine, I lost all motivation to write. (If you’re an extrovert, you likely understand how deep my depression and overwhelm began to helix. If you’re an introvert, imagine how you’d feel after spending the last six months in a small apartment with thirty strangers.) Then, a friend posted about the She Speaks for Him conference. I showed it to my husband and he encouraged me to sign up. Connecting with others online during the conference filled a void in my soul and pulled me out of an emotional pit.

Because of that experience, I knew the commitment, and the time, and the fight with technology terror (is this is an official disorder?) to provide Zoom for BRMCWC would be worth the work. Participants in the BRMCWC Zoom often thanked us for hosting, but truly, our group would have been nothing without the amazing attendees. (I’m only sad I can’t hug them. For now.)

Scripture: 1 Corinthians 14:26, Hebrews 10:24, 1 Peter 3:8

Fun Fact or Helpful Resource:
I asked Becky to share a little about herself. Be sure to connect with her. I know you’ll love her as much as I do! https://beckyantkowiak.com

From Becky: I’ve been writing for as long as I can remember. I’m an editor, an adoptive homeschooling mom, and an advocate for those who can’t speak up for themselves.

I’m the founder of the 540 Club, a community of writers who commit to write, to learn, and—above all—to encourage other writers. In addition to our Facebook group, we gather via Zoom for Write-ins and weekly meetings. The 540 Club* is FREE, and always will be.

I’d love to have you join us. Sign up at https://www.facebook.com/groups/540Club/. You can also join via the 540 Club page on my website https://beckyantkowiak.com/club-540/ if you’re not on Facebook.

Need prayer? Send me a message via the contact page at beckyantkowiak.com. I love to pray for my friends!

Thanks so much, Annette, for the chance to share. XO

*Future plans for the 540 Club include creating a non-profit arm, with opportunities for members to participate in virtual writing workshops for underserved kiddos. If you have related experience (non-profit formation, virtual teaching, etc.), I’d love to hear your thoughts.

Annette Marie Griffin is an award-winning author who has managed and directed programs for children and youth for more than twenty years. She has written curriculum for character growth and development of elementary-age children, developed parent training seminars to benefit the community, and counseled at-risk youth. Her first children’s book What Is A Family? released in 2020. She and her husband have five children—three who have already flown the coop and two adopted teens still roosting at home—plus two adorable grands who add immeasurable joy and laughter to the whole flock. 

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Screenwriting

This is a Test

Recently I received a notification on social media about this year’s film awards.  Traditionally, November through February is awards season in Hollywood. Not just for the blockbuster movies released this year, like Roma  or The Irishman or the big awards shows that are aired nationally:

  • Oscars
  • Golden globes
  • People’s Choice Awards

It’s also award season for screenwriting competitions. For many aspiring screenwriters, the lure and hope of winning a competition is a ray of hope and gift of breaking into the industry. Everyone wants an easy path to their writing dreams. The contest business is a booming industry for screenwriters.

Contests?

When I first started writing screenplays over a decade ago, I thought all I had to do was win a screenwriting contest and agents and the money would follow me everywhere. Back then, I was ignorant of how the industry works and what the real benefits of contests are.

First, I want to be clear about what contests aren’t:

  1. A guarantee of getting a movie sold or produced.
  2. A shortcut to screenwriting success.
  3. Like buying a lottery ticket and hoping you win the jackpot.

These are just a few of the myths I bought when I started screenwriting. But, over the years I’ve learned the real benefits of entering the screenwriting contests. They may not pack as much bang for the buck as I’d hoped, but there’s still a lot to be gained from competitions.

  1. Contests are a way of making connections in the industry, and networking is the name of the game in Hollywood.
  2. If you’re just starting, contests are a great way of getting some feedback about your writing skills. Just be sure to enter contests that offer entrants feedback or as we call it, coverage.
  3. If you are a skilled storyteller, contests are way of marketing your script to the powers that be in the industry. Be sure to check on who the judges are in the contest before entering.

All in all, a contest can still be a starting point for your career by landing you future writing jobs or they may simply build your reputation within the industry.

Starting Points?

At best, a contest or gets you meetings with managers, agents, and studio heads. If you play your cards correctly, you may walk away with an option or two if there’s enough interest in your writing chops.

Eight years ago I won a regional screenwriting competition in Georgia and I remain in contact with the creatives I met through the contest. Although I didn’t get a big sale from the contest, I did learn about screenwriting and walked away with a wealth of knowledge.

In closing, I want to encourage you to do your homework before entering a contest.  Check and see if it is worth the investment of the entry fee. Not all contests are created equal. Some may offer a cash prize, but no coverage of your script or credible contacts into the biz. Below are a couple of the main contests that can help launch a career.

  • Nicholl Screenwriting Fellowship – This is the most respectable competition and is run by the Academy of motion pictures (Oscars). Past winners include Erin Brockovich.
  •  The Austin Film Festival – past winners include Juno.
  • Final Draft’s Big Break competition – most winners land management or writing gigs.

Remember if you’re still trying to break into the screenwriting industry, a contest is simply a starting point, not the end of your journey. Ultimately, the truth is about screenwriting contests; it’s a test.

Martin Johnson survived a severe car accident with a (T.B.I.) Traumatic brain injury which left him legally blind and partially paralyzed on the left side. He is an award-winning Christian screenwriter who has recently finished his first Christian nonfiction book. Martin has spent the last nine years volunteering as an ambassador and promoter for Promise Keepers ministries. While speaking to local men’s ministries he shares his testimony. He explains The Jesus Paradigm and how following Jesus changes what matters most in our lives. Martin lives in a Georgia and connects with readers at Spiritual Perspectives of Da Single Guy and on Twitter at mtjohnson51.

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Embrace the Wait

Survival Tips for the Waiting part of Writing Tip 3—Villages and Tribes

Some movie scenes brand your brain with a message that never fades. One such scene, from The End of the Spear, is locked away in my mind forever. If you haven’t seen this film, I highly recommend it. It’s the true story about a group of missionaries in Ecuador who set out to reach the violent Auca Indian tribe with the message of the Gospel. Shockingly, when all the men in the missionary group are killed, their grieving wives and children boldly decide to move into the Auca camp to continue God’s work.

I can’t imagine taking such a risk alone, much less towing my young children with me into the ultimate danger zone. But God worked through these ladies’ stubborn faith to reach a lost group of people with His saving grace. Although faith was the door by which they entered into God’s plan, once in, these brave women had to learn the Auca language, adapt to their way of life, navigate the dos and don’ts of the culture, and most of all they had to prove their sincerity to win the Auca’s trust.

Our God given calling to write is a missionary field of its own. We enter by faith, but then are required to do the hard work needed to see it through. We must learn the cryptic language of the industry, adapt to a writer’s way of life, navigate the ever changing culture of publishing, and win the trust of agents and editors to gain a hearing for our message. As we do this we become part of the village that makes up our writing community. And it truly takes a village to raise our book-babies to maturity.

Trust me—I’m an introvert. If becoming a published author could be done lone ranger style I would gladly do it from the comfort of my writing desk while sipping a caramel latte and wearing my fuzzy slippers. But I’m learning that without the help of this village of mentors, teachers, supporters, prayer warriors, and encouragers the writing life can become an endless stream of untried thoughts and unrealized potential. How sad is that!

Writing conferences, critique groups, online writing courses, and social media groups are perfect opportunities to become one with fellow villagers. Yes—these things take time, effort, risk, and investment. And at times the process of becoming an integral part of the writing community seems overwhelming. But no obstacle is too difficult for God, who has called us to this shared journey. As we step out in faith He will build our village around us and use it to refine both writer and writing.

While our village is forming, we also need to cultivate our tribe. Our tribe are those for whom we write—our target audience. When all is said and done, our message will need an outlet. No matter how profound the thought or how perfect the style, our words will accomplish nothing if only crickets hear them. The good news is that God already had our tribe in mind when he gave us the words to write. His gifts are never bestowed so that we can squander them for our own pleasure. They are always given so that He can use the gifts to glorify Himself.  

Our job is to recognize our tribe and develop meaningful and sincere relationships with them through every possible means. This can be tricky because it’s not formulaic. Sure, we should learn how to market ourselves and take advantage of the tried-and-true techniques to increase our platform numbers. But people are smart. Most can see right through an author who only wants to gain their trust to sell their latest book. People long for connections with others who care about them. And if anyone should care about our readers, we should. This gets straight to the heart of the matter, doesn’t it? I’ve had to do some serious self-examination on this one. What’s my motive? Do I care about those who will be reading my writing, or do I simply want their help to succeed as an author? There is a difference. And that difference won’t only determine the longevity and loyalty of our readers but also the effectiveness of our ministry.

Books will come and go and our mission may change from season to season, but if we do the foundational work required to grow our villages and tribes our impact will be far reaching.

Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, Proverbs 27:17, Romans 11:29, 1 Peter 4:10

Fun Fact: Dr. Seuss’s first book, “And to Think that I Saw It on Mulberry Street,” was rejected so many times by publishers that he had decided to give up on writing and burn the manuscript. That same day he bumped into a friend from college, who had just taken a job at Vanguard Press as children’s editor. A few hours later the book was signed, and the rest is history.

Annette Marie Griffin is a award-winning writer who speaks at local women’s group meetings and women’s retreats on the topic of biblical womanhood and finding our identity in Christ. She is the Operations and Events Coordinator at a private school for special needs students and is the editor of their quarterly newsletter. She has written custom curriculum for women’s retreats and children’s church curriculum for Gateway Church in San Antonio, Texas where she served as Children’s Ministry Director and Family Program Director for over twenty years. She and her husband John have five amazing children and two adorable grands. She’s a member of Word Weavers International, ACFW, SCBWI, and serves on the Board of Directors for The Creative Writing Institute.

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Mystery/Thriller/Suspense

A Mystery Conference near You

Did you know there are conferences throughout the country that focus on the mystery / suspense / thriller genre? Some are primarily writer’s conferences, others are primarily conventions designed for fans of the genre. Both types are great places to learn, network, and enjoy the latest and best of the genre.

Here are some of the biggest conferences. If you love reading or writing mystery, suspense or thriller, you might want to check one out.

Bouchercon

The granddaddy of all mystery conventions. Named for the mystery fiction critic, editor and author Anthony Boucher, Bouchercon is the world’s largest crime fiction convention. The convention’s goal is to bring all parts of the mystery fiction community together, from readers to critics to booksellers. It features a four-day weekend of panels, keynotes, and special events. The 2018 conference will be held in Saint Petersburg, Florida in early September. Next year it will be held in Dallas, Texas at the end of October.

Killer Nashville

This annual conference is for all genres that involve mystery, thriller, or suspense writing. Held annually near Nashville, Tennessee. The four-day conference features seminars, breakout sessions, agent roundtables, a mock crime scene designed by law enforcement professionals, and more.

Left Coast Crime

This annual mystery convention is held in March somewhere in the western half of North America. The 2019 location is Vancouver, British Columbia, and the 2020 location is San Diego, California. A with other fan conferences, the purpose of Left Coast Crime is to connect readers, authors, critics, librarians, publishers, and other fans of the genre. The three-day event features panels, interviews, award presentations and more.

Malice Domestic

An annual mystery fan convention held in the Washington D.C. area that focuses on tradition-style mysteries (think Agatha Christie). Book signings, award presentations, panel discussions, and other events. The 2019 conference will be May 3-5.

New England Crime Bake

The largest crime fiction writers’ conference in New England. Held every year over Veteran’s Day weekend in the greater Boston area. Crime Bake is so popular it regularly sells out. Seminars, keynotes, master classes, pitch sessions, networking and more.

ThrillerFest

This conference devoted to thrillers is held each year in New York City by the International Thriller Writers (ITW) organization. ThrillerFest is a writers conference and fan convention in one, offering three paralell tracks: CraftFest offers classes for writers, PitchFest gives writers an opportunity to pitch their work to agents, and ThrillFest is a fan convention featuring both best-selling authors and not-yet-famous ones.

Writer’s Police Academy

For writers who want a hands-on experience to better understand law enforcement, fire-fighting, EMS or forensics. This event is held at a law enforcement training academy in Green Bay, Wisconsin. It features actual police, fire, forensics, and EMS training with top instructors. If you want to write with gritty realism, this is the conference for you.

There are plenty of smaller mystery conventions around as well. In Reference to Murder has a helpful page listing upcoming conferences with links.

Hopefully there is one near you.

Lisa E. Betz believes that everyone has a story to tell the world. She loves to encourage fellow writers to be intentional about their craft and courageous in sharing their words with others. Lisa shares her words through dramas, Bible studies, historical mysteries, and her blog about intentional living. You can find her on Facebook  LisaEBetzWriter and Twitter @LisaEBetz

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Guest post archive

The Value of Investing in Networking by Cindy Saab  

 

Networking; what comes to mind when you hear that word? Are you groaning? Are you having a flashback to that awkward moment when you entered a  room full of strangers? Were you expecting people to be your next best contact or your new best friend?  Were you successful in an engaging conversation that played out rhythmically like a game of ping pong?   Okay, so maybe it didn’t play out as well as you had planned.

In reality, you were standing there like a soldier petrified and paralyzed? When you scanned the arena, did you realize that everyone else seemed to be in the deep conversation?  The only conversation you were engaged in was the one playing out in your mind—the implementation of your exit plan.

Now imagine others are waiting in deep anticipation for the event to begin.  They consider this event a personal invitation to them, for them. The time has arrived.  You see someone coming, and as they enter the room, there is a shifting in the atmosphere. The lights seem more brilliant, music starts to play, conversations stop,  and as they enter they are giving the impression that they sing Ta-Da I am here, let the party begin. As she speaks, people are hanging on to her e v e r y syllable, every word. Everyone gravitates toward her. Every person wants to be her. They want to be her friend, and before the night is over, she has hundreds of new best friends.

But for most, networking is often more realistic in-between both extremes.   A place that is more functional and purposeful.

Networking is work.  Alan Collins reminds us that “Pulling a good network together takes effort, sincerity and time.”

For me, networking is all about connections.  Connections are all about relationships; relationships with yourself, others and God.

Torry Martin says it best, “networking is all about working together to build God’s Kingdom.

When done right networking is a powerful tool! It is not just meeting people and growing your contact databaseIt’s an investment with great returns.  When you invest your time in others with the right motives, you build relationships that last a lifetime.

The term networking means a variety of contrasting things. Perhaps you have heard, observed or experience some of the following terminology related to networking:

WIIFM                 [ what is in it for me].

Transaction           An exchange of services or interaction between people.

Reciprocate          Respond with an equal or alternate interchange.

Bartering              Exchange goods and or services.

Trade                    Business, barter, contract, dealings

Traffic                  Coming and going

Seasoned People   People more successful of you in the speaker/writing world.

Or even worse, another popular version of networking is to socialize for professional or personal gain;  encouraging you to circulate, hobnob, make contacts,  meet and greet, mingle, rub elbows and schmooze.

Some simply choose to limit the networking process to a two-handed exchange; a  handshake with your right hand and a  new shiny business card with your left hand.   While that may ring true as the initial contact, however, if that is all you have done, the only take away you’ll have will be a stack of business cards.  It is not just about meeting people and growing your contact database

For networking to be of value to you and others, you need to make an investment. Susan Rona tells you that “Networking is an enrichment program, not an entitlement program.”

Effective networking is an investment.  It is not about what you can receive.  It is about what can you give.  You invest your time in others. Your focus point is how can I  give? How can I serve? While serving others,  you build relationships, and if done right they will last a lifetime.

Some view networking more as a two-sided coin.  More of a give-and-take situation.  As stated by Bob Burg, “Networking is simply the cultivating of mutually beneficial, give and take, win-win relationships.  It works best, however, when emphasizing the “give” part.”

But in God’s economy, He instructs us to be a giver. When we give, God honors our obedience.  When we choose to be obedient to what God has called us to do and called us to be, the results are always blessings.  So often we experience overflowing joy during the transaction of giving to others.

Henry Drummond says, “The most obvious lesson in Christ’ teaching is that there is not happiness in having or getting anything, but only in giving.”

Here are some ways that we can give to others:

Recommendations: I know a person that would be perfect for …..

Referrals: Describe how another person  brought great value to you  [ accountant, copywriter, web designer, publisher, editor, agent, etc.]

Mentors:  Find a mentor to share their struggles, knowledge, and  accomplishments. Be a mentor to someone else and do the same.

Randy Alcorn has stated that “God prospers me not to raise my standard of living, but to raise my standard of giving.”

Writing/Speaking: Share writing and/or speaking opportunities. Pass on an assignment to another person who is better suited.

“Networking is not just connecting people.  It’s about connecting people with people, people with ideas, and people with opportunities.” as shared by Michele Jenna

As we develop our networking skills, our net will grow.  The Lord will continue to give us many opportunities to cast our net to others:  to serve, to give, to encourage, to be a bridge from one person to another.

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Zig Ziglar  says “You can have everything you want in life, if you just help enough other people get what they want.”

“When we keep the ‘others’ mentality we discover the true value of networking doesn’t come from how many people we can meet but rather how many people we can introduce to others”  – Simon Sink

Journal Entry & Prayer Assignments:  The Value of Investing in Networking

  1. REFLECTION PRAYER – Sit quietly before the Lord and let the Lord speak to you.  Listed below are some prayer starters:

Praise the Lord for your personal relationship with God himself.

Thank God for the people that he has brought into your life.

Thank God for the places he has brought you to.

Thank God for the many opportunities he has placed before you.

Confess and ask for forgiveness for times when you have been a taker only.

Ask Him what is your next step.

Ask Him to give to another person the encouragement they may need.

Ask Him to give to another guidance for their next step.

Ask Him to give you the opportunity to invest and bless others.

Ask Him to give you many opportunities to serve.

Ask God for wisdom to be a good steward of your time.

Ask God for wisdom to be a good steward of your talents.

Ask God to give you many opportunities to invest in others.

Ask God to give you opportunities to share what you have learned.

Pray for opportunities to share what God has most recently taught you.

Pray for opportunities to share a new method that has been helpful to you.

Praise God for the favor that He has shown you and blessed you with.

Always give all praise and glory to Him.

  1. Read  Acts 20:35 “It is more blessed to give than to receive.”

Write out your thoughts as to how this verse speaks to you today.

  1. Read scripture verse Matthew 6:19-21.

“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal,  but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be      also.”

What do you currently value?

What do you consider treasure?

What does storing up Treasure in Heaven mean to you?

How are you investing in God’s Kingdom?

  1.  Albert Einstein says, “Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to  become a man of value.”  What is the difference between a man of success and a man of value?
  1. Givers are blessed because  they:
  • Choose obedience over selfish gain
  • Are being conformed to the image of the Lord
  • Have established forever friends
  • Are people of faith
  • Exercise their trust muscle
  • Choose to give to others
  • Are growing in their relationship with the Lord
  • Are developing new friendships/relationships with others

Add other “Giver” statements.

Be generous in your giving. Keith Ferrazzi reminds us that “The currency of           real networking is not greed but generosity.”

COMMITMENT PRAYER

Write out a Commitment Prayer in Investing in Networking.

Sign and Date your Commitment Prayer.

Other Networking / Connection Resources:

Networking Workshops by Cindy Saab

Biblical Networking ~ Examples of effective networking relationships

Effective Networking ~ Before, During and After Conference Workshop

Cindy Saab       CindySpeaksWrites@gmail.com

 

 

Cindy Saab is a passionate communicator sharing Biblical truths as a speaker / teacher for over 25 years. Cindy is writing a Bible study “Journey By The Sea, Traveling through Unexpected Seasons. retreat series, and a Networking Conference Workshop. Cindy is a graduate of She Speaks and Speak Up Conference and a team member of reNEW and staff member of Asheville Christian Writer’s Conference. She is a Meet and Greet co-coordinator for NE Christian authors. A certified coach encouraging women to discover their next step. She was also the ministry coordinator for Christian Film Festivals of America, Inc. for 24 years. She resides in New Hampshire with her two adult children.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Child's Craft

Keep the FAITH in your Writing

Keeping the faith in your writing can be difficult. I remember sitting on my back porch with a rejection letter in my hand just sobbing. I had received the go ahead from this publisher to send in my full proposal. I’d been waiting in anticipation for several months and believed this was the publisher the Lord had provided. I’d worked so hard to perfect this manuscript but then it came. The dreaded rejection letter. It wasn’t what they needed at the time. Rejection letters weren’t new to me as I’d already received a year’s worth of them, but for some reason, this publisher hurt me the most. I just wanted to quit.

Have you been there? Are you experiencing this or something similar now? It seems that rejection letters aren’t sent so much anymore, as the dreaded silent treatment. No news is not good news in these cases. Luckily my youngest daughter, saddened at seeing her mom sobbing at that time, cuddled next to me and said, “You have to write, Mommy. You’re a writer.”

That was just what I needed to hear at the time to gradually snap me out of my Writers Pit of Despair. We all have one. Some of us visit it more than others. But believe me, we all have them.

What do we do when we don’t have a precious toddler telling us that we have to keep writing?  I think it’s okay to visit the pit once in a while for a brief pity party, but don’t set up camp down there. Claw your way back out. Keep the FAITH. That may sound cliché but I’ve come up with an acronym of FAITH for writers to keep us out of the pits of despair.

F – Fully believe in God’s anointing of your gift of writing.

God gave you the gift of writing for His glory. We don’t know what that means to Him, but we are to use the gifts He’s given to us. You may be asking, “How do I know if He’s given me the gift of writing or not?” People who do not have the gift of writing know it. They don’t like anything having to do with writing. They probably don’t journal, they dreaded writing assignments in school and don’t doodle in idle time. They aren’t looking at the world differently. They may not even enjoy reading. But if you can’t NOT write, you’ve probably got the gift.

A – Actively write or create. God is the Great Creator and I believe loves to see everyone creating in one form or another. Even when you’re visiting the pit, reach for a pen and your beautiful journal (life is too short to use ugly journals) and scribble your thoughts, your feelings and prayers down. Scratch out a note to your mother. Write a letter of praise to God. Draw. Color in those new adult coloring books. Make a craft with your child. Paint. Organize a drawer. Cross stitch. Sew. Find something to create to get your creative juices flowing again.

I – Involve yourself with other writers. Join a critique group. Word Weavers has local chapters all over. See if there’s one close to you or check out http://www.meetup.com/ to find local writers groups. Attend a conference to network with other writers. Join a writers group on facebook. Get creative to find other writers. You know they’re out there.

T- Thank God for your inspirations, for your time to write, for blessings and anything else that comes to mind. Giving thanks brings joy. In fact, giving thanks may be what lifts you out of the pit.

H – Hope, have faith. You have a hope in Jesus and in His love for you. Believe he has the best in mind for you and will use you and your writing in ways you probably can’t even fathom at this point. Be open to His leading. Believe in Him. Believe in your gifts and have FAITH.

Know you’re not alone in this. Anybody who claims to be a writer will receive a rejection or ‘silence’ at some point or many points. Rejections are the battle scars that show we’re writing. Keep writing and keep the FAITH.

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Platform and Branding

4 Simple Rules For Guest Posting

If you’ve never been a guest at another site, it can be intimidating. You take a risk by asking someone if you can write for their site, but it’s a great way to build your writer platform. Guest posting is easier than you think, especially if you do your homework.

Research prospective host sites to be sure you’re a good fit. Do you have similar audiences? Does your writing style match the tone of the site? Do you have a fresh message? Skim the past several months to see what’s been published, and then pitch something new. Once you’re accepted, follow these four simple rules:

1. Follow the host’s guidelines TO THE LETTER. A good guest post will

    • have the proper content. If the host focuses on personal stories, don’t give them a lengthy research article.
    • follow the word count. Most hosts will give you a little leeway, but do your best to come in within 10-15 words.
    • include images with attributions and links. Remember that hi-resolution images take longer to load on a page, so resize your images to a manageable size (4×3 aspect ratio, no greater than 1000px wide). Include all the necessary attribution info (site name, photographer, link).
    • send text and images separately. Format the post in Word with instructions for where to insert images. I insert bold red caps, “INSERT IMAGE – LAKE” and I name the .jpg file, Lake – Susan Stilwell.
    • include a short 25-50 word bio with your social media links, and with information that ties in with the focus of the host site. For example, I wrote an article for a travel site about the regions in Israel. I omitted what may seem superfluous and instead included my love of adventure and experiencing different cultures.

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2. Share with your subscribers. Post a “tease” on your site with a link to your guest post. Include at least two links to their site: one to their Home or About page, and one to your post. For example, I guested on our own Edie Melson’s site way back in 2012. The post on my blog would look like this:

“I’m excited to be guest posting at Edie Melson’s site today. She shares great information for writers and bloggers, and on Mondays she offers tips on social media and networking. Here’s a snippet:

Have you noticed how many people are adding “Click to Tweet” in their posts? Pretty jazzy, huh? It’s also pretty easy when you know what you’re doing. It’s a great way to increase your visibility on Twitter and can also drive traffic to your site.

Want to know more? Join the conversation there for Social Media Monday—Click To Tweet

Turn off commenting on your site so all the conversation will be at the host site.

3. Share on your social media networks and tag your host. Be sure you’re linking to the host site and not the “tease” post on your site.

4. Be gracious. Check the host site periodically and stay engaged in the discussion. When the conversation comes to an end, add one last comment thanking the commenters and your host.

With the constantly changing landscape of blogs and social media, savvy writers and bloggers are discovering the benefits of collaborating to build their platforms. Guest posting is one of the best ways to work together and expand our networks.

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4 rules for guest posting

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