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Pray and Submit

The text came while my wife and I were traveling home from an out-of-town doctor’s appointment.

“I’m doing a new book, and, for the first time, I am open to submissions from men. Submit something!”

My friend has edited a series of books about “Warrior Women,” focusing on various aspects of Christian life. I had heard about them and seen pictures of the covers but had never considered writing for one of the books, as the previous editions had been stories about women, by women.

My friend proceeded to give me the theme and the deadline, and I told her I would think and pray about it and try to submit something. Over the next few weeks, I got caught up in the busyness of life—work, church commitments, etc.—and forgot about the project.

I finally remembered . . . on deadline day. I got home from a long, hard day at my job and thought about how I would word a message to my friend, telling her I was not going to be able to submit anything. I hate disappointing people, but I did not see any other choice. How could I put something together this late in the process? When I need to do some serious thinking or praying, I take a walk in my neighborhood.

I set off on the windy country road and started talking to God. As I walked and talked, an idea came to mind, like an instant download from above. By the time I reached the end of the road and turned around to head home, the ideas were firmly in my mind. I hurried home, grabbed my laptop, and hammered out a story with the “Warrior Woman” theme.

Like most any writer would do, I finished and then walked away for a while, letting the story stew in my mind, going back to it for a quick revision after a while. At the zero hour, I clicked “send” on the submission to my friend. She was thrilled and even asked for photos to accompany the story.

The moral to the story? Never say never on a project until you talk to God. Prayer sharpened my focus and gave me the final push for an idea and to finish the piece. Is prayer a “magic pill” or a “free pass” to writing? Absolutely not. But, if I am pursuing God and talking to Him regularly, my writing will flow from that communication.

Carlton

Carlton Hughes, represented by Cyle Young of Hartline Literary, wears many hats. By day, he is a professor of communication. On Wednesday evenings and Sunday mornings, he serves as a children’s pastor. In his “spare time,” he is a freelance writer. Carlton is an empty-nesting dad and devoted husband who likes long walks on the beach, old sitcoms, and chocolate–all chocolate. His work has been featured in Chicken Soup for the Soul; The Dating Game, The Wonders of Nature, Let the Earth Rejoice, Just Breathe, So God Made a Dog, and Everyday Grace for Men. His latest book is Adventures in Fatherhood, co-authored with Holland Webb.

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Five Ways to Balance School and Writing-Caroline Hadley

Being a teenager is hard. Especially a teenager striving to be a published author. It’s stressful finding time to write. When I’m stressed, I talk myself through the anxiety – aloud. After these steps to balancing school and writing, I sound much less crazy. I hope they help you keep your sanity, too.

I use the following steps to balance school and writing, I sound less crazy. I hope they help you keep your sanity, too.

  1. Pray. Every morning I pray. I ask God for time to write and if I should write for a career. I ask Him to infuse my words with His power and sneak ideas into the work. Matthew 7:7-8 says when we ask we will receive. God will give you time to write if you ask and if it’s in His will.
  2. Prioritize. God comes first and school comes before your work-in-progress. However, decide what writing means to you. Is it something to do for fun? To make a career out of? Is it worth the time and effort you put in? I make writing a priority by reassessing what it means to me or by turning it into an extra credit opportunity with my teacher’s permission. [bctt tweet=”Turn writing into an extra credit opportunity” username=””]
  3. Schedule Wisely. We don’t have all day to write, so we must manage our time carefully. Throughout the day, I create a list of tasks I must complete and use it to plan my free time during and after school. Next, I carve writing sessions from that schedule. I place sessions within study halls and lunches or at home if I use those times to do homework. Your sessions can be short, maybe ten to fifteen minutes, but they help. Word sprints are a great way to utilize time. Write as fast as you can without stopping.  Brainstorm on the bus, between classes, in bed at night, or during class when you’re bored out of your mind. When life gets hard, think about your story instead.
  4. Sacrifice. Students must choose between hanging with friends and writing. I feel like a recluse because I often choose to be with my work-in-progress rather than my friends at the movie theater. But when I’m too stressed or need family time, I enjoy being with the people I love. Decide when to cancel or cut plans short. If you feel social but need to write, find some book-loving buddies and go to a library or a cafe with them to write.
  5. Give Yourself Grace. Being a student is hard. People expect perfection of us and we expect it of ourselves. Perfection is impossible. If you have too much homework or need downtime, don’t beat yourself up for missing a writing session. Writing is important, but not as important as your well-being. If it overwhelms you, take a break. 

After praying, prioritizing, scheduling, deciding when to sacrifice, and giving myself grace, I make time to write during the school year. With the help of God and these steps, you can, too.

How do you balance school and writing? If you don’t know if God wants you to write for a career, send me a prayer request!

 

Caroline Hadley writes young adult Christian speculative fiction to help other teens feel God’s love in a meaningful way. She has won a Silver Key and a national Gold Key for her short stories in the Scholastic Art and Writing Awards. Currently, she is adapting one of those stories into a novel. She is involved in a teen writing group at her local library and is working for her high school literary magazine. She enjoys maintaining a healthy lifestyle, reading, and being with her family. If you want to connect with her and chat, visit her blog, jarsofwords.blogspot.com.  ​