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What Are You Aiming For?

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I stared at the one-inch thick pine board and sighed. I had attempted the side-kick break for what seemed like the hundredth time, but it refused to break. Aggravation mounted along with the belief that I would never accomplish the task. I was a girl. I wasn’t strong. I was new to martial arts. My list of excuses grew by the moment but the board remained the same, completely intact.

Memories of that day popped up as I read the email. My article query had been rejected…again. Suddenly the hundred rejection challenge didn’t seem like much of a challenge after all. Why bother?

No one wants to read my writing.

Frustration mounted along with a belief that I would never be a full-time writer. The field was already saturated. There was too much competition. I didn’t know the right people. My list of excuses grew like the rejection emails in my in-box, yet something about that memory from martial arts class stuck out.

When I started Taekwondo, I was only one of two females in the class, not counting our female instructor, who looked like a blonde Xena Warrior Princess. I was the only teenage girl in a room full of football players. They made board breaking look easy, but then again they had big muscles. The senior student, one step away from black belt, was walking me through the technique…again.

“Your side-kick technique is good.”

“So, what am I doing wrong?”

“You’re kicking the board.”

“Funny. What else am I supposed to be doing?”

“The board isn’t your target,” he said. He tapped the front jacket of the student holding the board. This is your target. You need to follow through on your kick. You stop when you hit the board.”

Something began to click in my brain. I was intimidated by the board, so I stopped when I got to it.

I was focusing on the wrong thing.

“The board isn’t your target. It’s the obstacle between you and your target. Try again.”

The board holder assumed position again wrapping his fingers around the top of the board with one hand and the bottom of the board with the other. He locked his elbows, holding the board forward, level with my kick height. I backed up and took my fighting stance, hands up. I took a deep breath and stepped forward into a side-kick, aiming for the holder this time. When my foot landed on the mat, the sound of applause startled me. I looked down and the board was in two pieces.

As a writer, rejection slips are just one of the obstacles between me and success as a writer. My goal is to be published, but like learning how to break a board, it requires learning the right techniques and practicing them. All the excuses about why I can’t become a published author are just obstacles that I have to break through. I can’t let them stop me.

What goals are you aiming for?

The key is keeping your eye on the goal, not on the obstacles in the way. We have to figure out how to get over, around, or through the obstacles. We have to do the work. In Taekwondo, I came to class twice a week for two hours. Every class we exercised, practiced kicks and punches, and practiced sparring. I showed up every week, and I got better with each practice. Eventually, I took a test and passed my yellow belt, which included a board break. The path to black belt included several more levels, each increasing in skills learned.

Whatever you are aiming for in life, it requires keeping your eyes on the target.

It also requires showing up and doing the work. You have to work through the obstacles; you have to work through the excuses. When you aim at the right target and follow through, you will have a break-through too.

Linda Lyle is a writer, knitter, and single mama to two crazy cats. When she is not running the office at a machine shop, she is working part-time at The Taming of the Ewe: A Yarn and Tea Boutique or scribbling ideas on her blog, The End of My Yarn.

Connect with Linda at website is https://lindalyle.com/.

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Mastering Middle Grade

What Rejection Really Is

Behind every book on the shelf, and every story waiting to be published, there’s an author who has experienced the sting of rejection.

My first middle grade book was rejected eight times. My second, soon-to-be-published middle grade was rejected four times before I heard a “yes.”

I’d be lying if I said rejection never hurt. But over the years, through trial and error, I’ve stumbled upon some ways to make it less painful and more empowering.  I hope these tips help you too.

Top Five Books to Encourage Writers

Spot the type

Querying is like a marathon job search. Your query letter is your application; your manuscript is your resume. It’s a process that can leave authors feeling vulnerable and anxious, wondering what their dream agent or publisher might think about their work.

In reality, the query is step one of a multi-step path to the shelf. Breaking that path down into steps can help remove some of the emotional pressure along the journey.

Every time you query, you can expect one of four types of messages in return. These responses come in four basic flavors.

1.Yes 

This response is my favorite for obvious reasons. As exciting as the yes is, keep in mind that it’s just one part of the puzzle. A yes at the query stage doesn’t guarantee publication. It opens the door to the next step in the process.

2. Constructive no thank you

The constructive response is my second favorite because it offers you a glimpse into the mind of your gatekeepers, the agents and editors. A constructive no thank you is a no that gifts you with actionable feedback about your manuscript. It will read something like this:

Dear Kelli,

Thank you for submitting your work. Although your writing is solid, I had a hard time connecting with your main character. I think your story would benefit from developing a stronger sense of conflict between your MC and his father. I must pass on this project but would like to see anything you may have to share in the future.

Sincerely,

Agent McAgentson

If you receive a few of these, you’ll probably begin to see one or two of the same types of issues rise to the top – and that tells you how to improve. This is useful and good.

3. Destructive no

I haven’t received destructive feedback to a query yet, but some of my writer friends have. A destructive no reads something like this:

Dear Kelli,

Thank you for submitting your work. It’s not for me. Your writing style is abrasive and choppy. If you’d actually read books written by the other authors I represent, you’d know what I meant by ‘voicy fiction.’ This isn’t it.

Good luck,

Agent Rudebelly

The destructive no is hard to read. It’s both less professional and less personable, and it offers no helpful insight or clarity that can help the author improve.

On their websites, most editors and agents will post guidance on their typical response time. For example, Agent McAgentson says that if you haven’t received a request for a full manuscript within 12 weeks of your submission date, you can assume that she’s declined.

4. Silent no thank you

Once you open the email (or the determined number of weeks have passed without an email), you can identify what kind of response you’ve received. Then it’s time for our next tip.

Respond accordingly

Before you respond, feel your feelings and process your emotions. If you need encouragement, seek encouragement, but try not to wallow. When you join the Rejection Club, you’ve joined the ranks of authors everywhere.

If you’re lucky enough to receive constructive feedback with your rejection, accept it with grace. Make note of the agent’s insights and watch for trends – if you receive multiple comments about the same specific aspect of your work, that’s a good sign that you need to revise.

If the agent expresses an interest in looking at your future work, save her contact information and look forward to querying her again.

It might be tempting to reply, especially if you’re feeling angry or upset, but resist the urge. Most agents and editors are too busy to read them. If you are still tempted, consider this:

  1. If you fire off an angry email telling the agent/editor how wrong they are to reject your work and why, you’re guaranteeing they don’t accept any of your future submissions. They can say no without needing to defend their choice. If it isn’t right for them, it’s not right for them – but it will be right for someone else.
  2. If you email them asking if you can resubmit after you’ve made revisions, you’re wasting their time and burning bridges. If they had wanted you to revise and resubmit, they would have told you.
  3. If you email them to tell them Agent/Publisher XYZ accepted this manuscript and it will be published on this date, that’s great, but rather rude and vengeful and will likely ruin your chances for future submissions.  

If you’ve received destructive feedback, do not respond. At all. It might be tempting to let this person know your opinion about them, but in the end, responding in anger isn’t helpful. You’re not going to change their heart or mind.

This leads us to what rejection truly is.

Rejection is necessary

The main thing I want to impress on you about rejections is this: They. Are. Necessary. They’re part of the amazing process of being an author. Use rejection as an opportunity to practice patience, hone your craft, and reflect on why you write.

Everyone, from J.K. Rowling to Anne Frank to Kathryn Stockton, receives rejection letters. They are a sign of something incredibly valuable. They’re a sign that you dreamed up a story, wrote it, edited it, and sent it out into the world. That’s huge. That should be celebrated. Don’t ever stop celebrating it.

A rejection is a sign that you’ve accomplished something millions of people only imagine- you completed a book. So go collect all the rejections, because that’s how you make your way to the shelf. One rejection at a time.

See you next time.

When Kelli McKinney and her family aren’t exploring national parks, she can be found on the sidelines at her son’s tennis tournaments, brewing a cup of cinnamon spice tea, or chucking a toy across the backyard for her English Mastiff to chase.

She earned her bachelor’s degree in journalism from the University of Oklahoma and her graduate degree in radio/tv/film from the University of North Texas. She enjoyed an eclectic-yet-fulfilling fifteen-year career in corporate marketing before wandering off on her own to be a freelance copywriter.

Now, she is a part-time copywriter, full-time mom, and a children’s author. She lives in Texas but a huge piece of her heart belongs to Oklahoma. Her debut novel, JEFF PENNANT’S FIELD GUIDE TO RAISING HAPPY PARENTS is forthcoming in late 2022 with Chicken Scratch Books.

Kelli loves to hear from readers and writers. She can be reached through her website at www.kellmckinney.com or on Instagram @klmckinneywrites .

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Mastering Middle Grade

What Rejection Really Is

Behind every book on the shelf, and every story waiting to be published, there’s an author who has experienced the sting of rejection. Top Five Books to Encourage Writers

My first middle grade book was rejected eight times. My second, soon-to-be-published middle grade was rejected four times before I heard a “yes.”

I’d be lying if I said rejection never hurt. But over the years, through trial and error, I’ve stumbled upon some ways to make it less painful and more empowering.  I hope these tips help you too.

Spot the type

Querying is like a marathon job search. Your query letter is your application; your manuscript is your resume. It’s a process that can leave authors feeling vulnerable and anxious, wondering what their dream agent or publisher might think about their work.

In reality, the query is step one of a multi-step path to the shelf. Breaking that path down into steps can help remove some of the emotional pressure along the journey.

Every time you query, you can expect one of four types of messages in return. These responses come in four basic flavors.

  • Yes 

This response is my favorite for obvious reasons. As exciting as the yes is, keep in mind that it’s just one part of the puzzle. A yes at the query stage doesn’t guarantee publication. It opens the door to the next step in the process.

  • Constructive no thank you

The constructive response is my second favorite because it offers you a glimpse into the mind of your gatekeepers, the agents and editors. A constructive no thank you is a no that gifts you with actionable feedback about your manuscript. It will read something like this:

Dear Kelli,

Thank you for submitting your work. Although your writing is solid, I had a hard time connecting with your main character. I think your story would benefit from developing a stronger sense of conflict between your MC and his father. I must pass on this project but would like to see anything you may have to share in the future.

Sincerely,

Agent McAgentson

If you receive a few of these, you’ll probably begin to see one or two of the same types of issues rise to the top – and that tells you how to improve. This is useful and good.

  • Destructive no

I haven’t received destructive feedback to a query yet, but some of my writer friends have. A destructive no reads something like this:

Dear Kelli,

Thank you for submitting your work. It’s not for me. Your writing style is abrasive and choppy. If you’d actually read books written by the other authors I represent, you’d know what I meant by ‘voicy fiction.’ This isn’t it.

Good luck,

Agent Rudebelly

The destructive no is hard to read. It’s both less professional and less personable, and it offers no helpful insight or clarity that can help the author improve.

  • Silent no thank you

On their websites, most editors and agents will post guidance on their typical response time. For example, Agent McAgentson says that if you haven’t received a request for a full manuscript within 12 weeks of your submission date, you can assume that she’s declined.

Once you open the email (or the determined number of weeks have passed without an email), you can identify what kind of response you’ve received. Then it’s time for our next tip.

Respond accordingly

Before you respond, feel your feelings and process your emotions. If you need encouragement, seek encouragement, but try not to wallow. When you join the Rejection Club, you’ve joined the ranks of authors everywhere.

If you’re lucky enough to receive constructive feedback with your rejection, accept it with grace. Make note of the agent’s insights and watch for trends – if you receive multiple comments about the same specific aspect of your work, that’s a good sign that you need to revise.

If the agent expresses an interest in looking at your future work, save her contact information and look forward to querying her again.

It might be tempting to reply, especially if you’re feeling angry or upset, but resist the urge. Most agents and editors are too busy to read them.

If you are still tempted, consider this:

  1. If you fire off an angry email telling the agent/editor how wrong they are to reject your work and why, you’re guaranteeing they don’t accept any of your future submissions. They can say no without needing to defend their choice. If it isn’t right for them, it’s not right for them – but it will be right for someone else.
  2. If you email them asking if you can resubmit after you’ve made revisions, you’re wasting their time and burning bridges. If they had wanted you to revise and resubmit, they would have told you.
  3. If you email them to tell them Agent/Publisher XYZ accepted this manuscript and it will be published on this date, that’s great, but rather rude and vengeful and will likely ruin your chances for future submissions.  

If you’ve received destructive feedback, do not respond. At all. It might be tempting to let this person know your opinion about them, but in the end, responding in anger isn’t helpful. You’re not going to change their heart or mind.

This leads us to what rejection truly is.

Rejection is necessary.

The main thing I want to impress on you about rejections is this: They. Are. Necessary. They’re part of the amazing process of being an author. Use rejection as an opportunity to practice patience, hone your craft, and reflect on why you write.

Everyone, from J.K. Rowling to Anne Frank to Kathryn Stockton, receives rejection letters. They are a sign of something incredibly valuable. They’re a sign that you dreamed up a story, wrote it, edited it, and sent it out into the world. That’s huge. That should be celebrated. Don’t ever stop celebrating it.

A rejection is a sign that you’ve accomplished something millions of people only imagine- you completed a book. So go collect all the rejections, because that’s how you make your way to the shelf. One rejection at a time.

See you next time.

When Kelli McKinney and her family aren’t exploring national parks, she can be found on the sidelines at her son’s tennis tournaments, brewing a cup of cinnamon spice tea, or chucking a toy across the backyard for her English Mastiff to chase.

She earned her bachelor’s degree in journalism from the University of Oklahoma and her graduate degree in radio/tv/film from the University of North Texas. She enjoyed an eclectic-yet-fulfilling fifteen-year career in corporate marketing before wandering off on her own to be a freelance copywriter.

Now, she is a part-time copywriter, full-time mom, and a children’s author. She lives in Texas but a huge piece of her heart belongs to Oklahoma. Her debut novel, JEFF PENNANT’S FIELD GUIDE TO RAISING HAPPY PARENTS, is forthcoming in late 2022 with Chicken Scratch Books.

Kelli loves to hear from readers and writers. She can be reached through her website at www.kellmckinney.com or on Instagram @klmckinneywrites .

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Writing with a Disability (Different Ability)

Navigating the Nos

Covid-19 has had the world on lockdown since March and we’ve all made adjustments to our lives—life as we knew it has changed.

As the country begins to open up, it seems there are more nos than yesses. And no one is happy about it. Many are staging protests in defiance of laws and common sense. Even though these stipulations are put in place to protect us, people don’t want to listen.

In Georgia, where I live, the state was one of the first to begin reopening, much to the concern of many residents. The powers that be and impatient citizens wanted to reopen, regardless of the numbers. I believe we shouldn’t disregard our lawmakers precautions just to suit our selfish desires and needs.

Being older I’ve learned the wisdom of rolling with the punches of life.

  • We can’t always have what we want.
  • We need to learn to be flexible or else life will break us.
  • Patience is more than a virtue; it’s a necessity for life.

During my first days after my accident I didn’t understand these truths, but over time I learned my life had changed and being disabled was my new normal.

I heard more “nos” than “yesses”, and it depressed me. But on this side of my recovery, I understand sometimes in life the answer is just no and we need to hear it.

Navigating the Nos?

Those early days in the hospital inspired me to push myself, but there were a lot of tough times, like falling off the commode when I refused to listen to the nurses about my inability to walk.

The nurses and my friends weren’t trying to hold me back, they were trying to help me and I was too prideful to listen. When the doctors, nurses and countless specialists were telling me no, it wasn’t to discourage me, it was to protect me from hurting myself and possibly others.

After I transferred to rehab, I was walking with the therapist down a hall, and just before I entered a doorway, my neuropsychologist called out my name. In that brief moment I turned my attention towards her and accidentally walked into the doorjamb and hit my head. As I stumbled backward I hit my therapist causing her to lose her balance and almost fall. So when it came time for my review for release, my neuropsychologist refused to sign off and I was forced to remain in rehab.

Those doctors and therapists saw what I couldn’t about myself. They knew where I needed to improve even when I couldn’t see it. In my youth I resented their rules and regulations. Some two decades later, I am grateful for them.

The trained medical specialists knew what I needed more than I did. Their training and experience gave them the tools and insight to help me in many ways.

The same concept applies to the writing life. Often we writers are sure of our talents, knowledge, and stories. We want to skip the necessary steps to succeed. We want the easy route that doesn’t challenge us or help us grow in the craft.

This is part of the reason why we face rejections rather than a coveted acceptance letter. We haven’t honed our skills or heeded the advice of others who are trying to help us. Rejection letters from agents and publishers aren’t meant to discourage us, but rather to encourage us to continue to learn the craft and improve our stories.

It’s been three years since I attended my last writer’s conference. Although I didn’t get an acceptance letter, I made connections in the industry and learned more about the craft and since then I’ve tried to use what I learned. I’ve tried to be wise in how I handled the nos in my writing life.

Wisdom?

At that last conference, I made a new writer friend and we kept in contact for a few weeks. Then suddenly, when they didn’t hear what they wanted to hear, their attitude changed and bitterness set in.

As far as I know the writer no longer writes. They have dropped from social media and closed the door. It’s sad because, they had a great audience and market to write for.

What a lot of writers don’t realize is that after rejections many agents continue to follow would-be authors to see what they are doing. The wise use the rejection as motivation to get better. Others allow the rejection to make them bitter.

You have a choice, Below are a few steps you can take if you choose to become a better writer after rejection.

  • Continue to learn the craft.
  • Polish your writing.
  • Build your platform.
  • Nurture those relationships you make.

Before I was released from the rehabilitation as an outpatient, I had to spend some time in a T.L.C. (transitional living center) where I could be watched during daily activities. There I met other people with brain injuries who were struggling to deal with their nos. I spent a month there and saw many others taste victory before me. Each setback and failure only made me more determined to navigate the nos.

Martin Johnson survived a severe car accident with a (T.B.I.) Traumatic brain injury which left him legally blind and partially paralyzed on the left side. He is an award-winning Christian screenwriter who has recently finished his first Christian nonfiction book. Martin has spent the last nine years volunteering as an ambassador and promoter for Promise Keepers ministries. While speaking to local men’s ministries he shares his testimony. He explains The Jesus Paradigm and how following Jesus changes what matters most in our lives. Martin lives in a Georgia and connects with readers at Spiritual Perspectives of Da Single Guy and on Twitter at mtjohnson51.

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Devotions for Writers

Return and Submit

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“You are the God who sees me.” ~ Hagar

Genesis 16:13 (NIV) 

Rejection. Every writer is familiar with it. It stings like a scorpion in the hot desert, which is where Hagar found herself. Her mistress, Sarai had given Hagar an assignment, but then rejected her. How many times have you turned in an article, only to receive a rejection notice? Or, no notification at all? Rejection begins to feel personal and pointed. Maybe your self-esteem plummets, too? Writers can question the worth of their words and suffer from Imposter Syndrome.

Author Valerie Young says, “A sense of belonging fosters confidence.” So, work with your writers group to build your skills and add finesse to your words. Don’t succumb to those feelings of inadequacy or let rejection define you.

What if there was another way? The angel said, “Go back and submit.” (Genesis 16:9)

What if we went back to that editor and submitted a new idea? What if we repurposed the theme into a fresh perspective and submitted it to another market?

Hagar didn’t stay stuck in the desert. The Lord opened her eyes to see the new thing He wanted to do in her life. (Genesis 21:19) God provided another way for Hagar and He can do the same for you. Then, like Hagar, you’ll agree, “God sees me!”

Exercise:

  • Are you feeling stuck? Ask the Lord to open your eyes to the underlying issue. Talk to a trusted writer friend about your findings and commit to pray together. (Galatians 6:2)
  • Hagar turned away from her son, when she thought she was inadequate to help. But her trip to the well refreshed herself and her son. Jesus is the Living Water. Let Him refresh you and others through the words you write. (John 4:13-14)
  • Are you afraid of not measuring up? Walk away from those feelings of inferiority by doing something to take your next step toward accomplishing a goal. It will give you the courage to keep going and refresh your self-esteem. (Proverbs 14:22-23)
  • Look through your contacts from magazines in print or online. Maybe it’s been a while since you emailed that editor with a query. Is there someone you can contact and offer your services? Pitch an idea and see where it leads. I did this and ended up getting one of my biggest paying jobs, yet. (Ephesians 6:7)

Stay proactive in sending out your words when you “return and submit!”

Over 140 of Sally Ferguson’s devotionals have been published in Pathways to God (Warner Press). She’s also written for Light From The Word, Chautauqua Mirror, Just Between Us, Adult Span Curriculum, Thriving Family, Upgrade with Dawn and ezinearticles.com. Prose Contest Winner at 2017 Greater Philly Christian Writers Conference.

Sally loves organizing retreats and seeing relationships blossom in time away from the daily routine. Her ebook, How to Plan a Women’s Retreat is available on Amazon. 

Sally Ferguson lives in the beautiful countryside of Jamestown, NY with her husband and her dad.

Visit Sally’s blog at www.sallyferguson.net

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Becoming an Author

Avoid Automatic Rejections by Following This Checklist

It can be discouraging to not receive a response on your submission—and even more frustrating when the response is an automatic “no.” I personally don’t give automatic rejections to submission; however, there are agents and editors who may delete a submission even before they’ve had a chance to evaluate it. 

It might sound rude for them to delete a submission before even considering the project. However, they receive multiple submissions per week. If a writer does not adhere to specific guidelines, then, well, that’s an easy way for the agent/editor to separate the pros from the amateurs.  If the writer can’t follow the submission guidelines, how can the editor/agent trust that they will behave professionally in the future?

Would you like to avoid this automatic no? If so, here are 5 questions to review before hitting the submit button:

1. Did I spell the agent or editor’s name correctly? 

This is likely the first impression you’ll make (after the subject line, of course). You would be surprised how many emails I receive that are addressed to “Emily” (my middle name) rather than “Tessa” (my first name)!

2. Am I submitting to the right person? 

Check the site. Ensure that the agent or editor accepts your genre and would make a good match for your works. 

3. Did I follow the specific guidelines? 

There are some writers who think they’re “above” the rules. But guidelines are set for a reason! Don’t be lazy—unless, of course, that’s the impression you’d like to make. I doubt it is. You’re hoping to work with this agent or editor, so make sure it’s obvious that you are a professional. And professionals don’t carry an egotistical attitude. 

4. Have I edited my submission—including the query letter, book proposal, and sample chapters? 

Don’t rush this process. Search for typos. You are a writer, after all. And even though writers aren’t always perfect in the arena of grammar and punctuation, your submission will look sloppy if it’s not clean. (I personally recommend asking others to read over the proposal/submission just to double-check. We’re often blind to our own faults.)

5. Did I submit the right file and adhere to the standard format? 

Again, you’ll want to read the guidelines carefully to make sure you’ve hit every request regarding format, font, and file type.

For those who are unfamiliar with this process, you may think agents and editors are asking too much of writers—as if they’re requesting you to jump through unnecessary hoops. But trust me when I say that these guidelines are set for a reason.  Not to frustrate the author, but because it helps the agents and editors to quickly evaluate each submission in an orderly manner. It also helps to differentiate the pros from the amateurs. Do what you can to come across as a pro! Keep in mind, too, that almost every successful traditionally published author has gone through this process. 

Then, when you’re ready—and only then—should you send your work out to the publishing world. But not without going over this checklist first, of course! 

Tessa Emily Hall is an award-winning author who writes inspirational yet authentic books for teens to remind them they’re not alone. She writes both fiction and devotionals for teens, including her upcoming release, LOVE YOUR SELFIE (October 2020, Ellie Claire). Her latest devotional, COFFEE SHOP DEVOS, encourages teens to pursue a personal relationship with Christ. Tessa’s passion for shedding light on clean entertainment and media for teens led her to a career as a Literary Agent at Cyle Young Literary Elite, YA Acquisitions Editor for Illuminate YA (LPC Imprint), and Founder/Editor of PursueMagazine.net. She’s guilty of making way too many lattes and never finishing her to-read list. When her fingers aren’t flying 128 WPM across the keyboard, she can be found speaking to teens, decorating art journals, and acting in Christian films. Her favorite way to procrastinate is through connecting with readers on her blog, mailing list, social media (@tessaemilyhall), and website: tessaemilyhall.com.

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What to Do When You Are Told You Are Not Enough by Whitney Ward

Have you ever been told you are not enough?

For whatever reason and no matter who you hear it from, being told you do not measure up is difficult to hear.

How do I know what it feels like to be told I am not enough? My whole life I have lived with a chronic Primary Immunodeficiency, (PI), called MAGIS Syndrome. Having a PI meant my immune system didn’t work properly. Nationwide Children’s Hospital in Columbus, Ohio became my home away from home.

There were so many things I would have loved to do and be involved in, but my lack of energy prevented it. The unpredictability that came with my disease caused me to be isolated, lonely, and unqualified. I often felt like people my age were experiencing normal life milestones and my life had just stopped.

I was just not enough.

So, what do you do when you are made to feel you are not enough?

First of all, remember who created you. John 1:3 says that we are all made by God.  In fact, there is not one thing that was not made by Him. When someone makes you feel “less than,” remind yourself God created you and allow your creator to use your story for His glory.

Secondly, when individuals question whether you can accomplish a goal you have set out to obtain, ask yourself this question: “Am I setting goals that fall in line with the passions and talents God has created within me or am I trying to accomplish a goal that is meant for someone else?” It is tough when someone questions our ability, but it may be God’s way of checking our true motives to get us back to what His purpose is for us. 1 Corinthians 12:12-27 teaches Christians are a body and we all have a special part God has given us.

No one is the same; we are all unique. Someone else’s goal may seem more impactful than your talents, but remember God knows the exact reason He has given you the part He has and He has already ordained what lives you will touch and minister to because of the dream He has planted in your heart. You may not see the fruits immediately, but keep working for His Kingdom, because God knows the perfect time for your fruit to bloom.

Lastly, if your answer to the above question is yes, you are setting goals that fall in line with the talents God has created within you, then do not dare stop reaching for those dreams no matter what is said to you, or how you are made to feel. Some people may think you are inadequate, but God knows you are more than adequate. Psalm 37:4-5 tells us if we serve the Lord and trust in Him, not only will He give us the desires of our heart, but He will bring them to pass. Not everyone might approve or agree with the path you have chosen, but that is okay as long as you are working towards God’s perfect will and plan for your life.

Remember how I shared there were things I would have loved to do and be involved in, but could not because of my disease?

Guess what?

While I waited, I served the Lord and I trusted Him, He began healing me of my illness and all of those dreams and desires have come to pass. Not only did I graduate from high school, but I have a Bachelor’s in Creative Writing. I have gone on six mission trips, and three of them have been overseas. I am a member at my local gym and I work out at least three times a week. I volunteer for a non-profit called the Immune Deficiency Foundation, helping others who have chronic illnesses. I am now a Sunday School teacher, work in Vacation Bible School, and youth camp at my home church. I have seen when God brings something to pass, He goes above and beyond, just as Ephesians 3:20 promises. It has put a drive in me not to just settle for “some” of God’s blessings and good gifts, but to go all out seeking and reaching for all He has to offer.

This is exactly what I encourage you to do as well. People are human, and they may say hurtful things, but remember Who created you. You are not an accident. Determine in your heart you are working towards the calling and mission God has given you. If you are, do not let anyone stop you from achieving EVERYTHING God has for you, because to Him you are not just enough, you are MORE THAN ENOUGH.

Whitney Ward graduated from Asbury University with a Bachelor of Arts in Creative Writing and a minor in Journalism. Whitney struggles with a rare lifelong disease. She has shared her journey at various venues, and resides in Rubyville, Ohio, attending Rubyville Community Church, teaching Sunday School to 1st and 2nd graders, and manages the church’s website.

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Word Play: Life Lessons from One Tough Cookie by Diana Derringer

“Will you please teach me a new slang expression and what it means every day?” Little did I know where that simple request would lead.

As a friendship family to international university students, I became the unofficial interpreter for my husband’s frequent use of slang, idioms, and other unusual expressions. When students asked “How are you,” he responded, “Hunky dory” or “Fit as a fiddle.” When they said, “Goodbye,” he replied, “Toodle-oo.” For them, he often spoke his own foreign language.

A student from Taiwan made her request for slang lessons during one of our daily walks. As we began exploring those often-confusing expressions, an idea slowly formed. Why not combine my writing and international outreach with a hearty dose of fun?

Thus began Words, Wit, and Wisdom: Life Lessons from English Expressions. Once a week I explain a new expression, frequently suggested by a reader. I keep blog posts short, simple, and easy to read.

My primary audience remains people with English as a second language. However, many followers, who speak English as their primary language, enjoy the word play and devotional respite.

The wisdom I find in many expressions applies to the writing life as well. For example, my husband taught me the importance of becoming a tough cookie. The way he handles hard times amazes me.

A tough cookie has often experienced a hard life.

My husband has suffered:

  • A malignant brain tumor (In 2004, he was expected to live three to five years.)
  • A heart attack, stroke, and fall that resulted in a severe brain injury (In 2009, all three happened the same day. He was not expected to live 24 hours.)

As a writer, I dread rejections (or worse, no response at all). However, in the grander scheme of things, those are not a problem. I can revise and submit elsewhere.

A tough cookie is a strong person. 

My husband refuses to give up in spite of health problems. He:

  • Almost never complains
  • Rarely gets discouraged
  • Fears little
  • Refuses to accept defeat

When I grow weary, ready to throw in the towel, I remember God called me to write. I can do this, not in my own strength but in God’s.

A tough cookie decides to make the most of life.

My husband would prefer to be healthy and able to work. However, he chooses not to be a worry wart. Instead, he enjoys what he can.

I also choose whether to make the most of each day, in spite of less-than-ideal circumstances. God can take my life and my circumstances to create opportunities I could never imagine.

A tough cookie is not perfect.

No one is. Life’s not perfect. However, like all of us, my husband has a choice: complain or do the best he can. He says what happened to him is just the way the cookie crumbles. Therefore, he makes the best of life.

Although I organize, set goals, and take notes, life seldom follows my well-laid plans. Like my husband, I learn to cross each day’s bridge as I get to it.

Why not join me? Enjoy and allow God to direct your word play. Remain a tough cookie. Who knows where that may lead or what you may discover?

I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances (Philippians 4:11 NIV)

Diana Derringer is an award-winning writer and author of Beyond Bethlehem and Calvary: 12 Dramas for Christmas, Easter, and More! Hundreds of her articles, devotions, dramas, planning guides, Bible studies, and poems appear in 40-plus publications, including The Upper Room, The Christian Communicator, Clubhouse, Kentucky Monthly, Seek, and Missions Mosaic, plus several anthologies. She also writes radio drama for Christ to the World Ministries. Her adventures as a social worker, adjunct professor, youth Sunday school teacher, and friendship family for international university students supply a constant flow of writing ideas. Visit her at dianaderringer.com.

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Bestsellers

Bestselling Author Interview – DiAnn Mills

DiAnn Mills is a bestselling author who believes her readers should expect an adventure. She combines unforgettable characters with unpredictable plots to create action-packed, suspense-filled novels. Her titles have appeared on the CBA and ECPA bestseller lists; won two Christy Awards; and been finalists for the RITA, Daphne Du Maurier, Inspirational Readers’ Choice, and Carol award contests. Library Journal presented her with a Best Books 2014: Genre Fiction award in the Christian Fiction category for Firewall. DiAnn is a founding board member of the American Christian Fiction Writers; the 2015 president of the Romance Writers of America’s Faith, Hope, & Love chapter; a member of Advanced Writers and Speakers Association, and International Thriller Writers. She speaks to various groups and teaches writing workshops around the country. She and her husband live in sunny Houston, Texas. DiAnn is very active online and would love to connect with readers on any of the social media platforms listed at www.diannmills.com.

DiAnn, your books have sold over two and a half million copies, but you are extremely approachable and still you strive to assist aspiring writers. What drives you to stay so connected to the writing community?

Three reasons! I was once an aspiring writer (still am), and I haven’t forgotten the efforts published writers put into my career. The second reason is my faith means reaching out to others in love. I want writers to succeed. The third reason is rather selfish because I receive a lot of self-satisfaction in giving my best to writers.

Can you share a little about your recent book – High Treason

High Treason will be released February 2018 and is available for preorder.

When Saudi Prince Omar bin Talal visits Houston to seek cancer treatment for his mother, an attempt on his life puts all agencies on high alert. FBI Special Agent Kord Davidson is the lead on the prince’s protective detail because of their long-standing friendship, but he’s surprised―and none too happy―when the CIA brings one of their operatives, Monica Alden, in on the task force after the assassination attempt.

Kord and Monica must quickly put aside interagency squabbles, however, when they learn the prince has additional motives for his visit―plans to promote stronger ties with the US and encourage economic growth and westernization in his own country. Plans that could easily incite a number of suspects both in the US and in countries hostile to Saudi Arabia. Worse yet, the would-be assassin always seems to be one step ahead of them, implicating someone close to the prince―or the investigation. But who would be willing to commit high treason, and can Kord and Monica stop them in time?

Why do you write? Do you have a theme, message, or goal for your books?

I cannot not write. I have a passion for story that will not let me go. My writing is a ministry, a calling. Yes, my primary focus is to entertain readers, but with that goal is also a need to inspire readers to become better people and encourage them in their life’s journey. When readers can identify with a character who struggles with a problem but does not give up, they are entertained, inspired, and encouraged.

I create suspense novels with a thread of romance. We live in a dangerous world where too often evil dominates over good. My themes are to always show that God will overcome the bad – and triumph.

How long have you been writing?

And how long did it take you to get your first major book contract? Since 1996 when my husband challenged me to write a book. My first book was released in 1998, and it took about six months for the publishing house to purchase it.

How long does it take you to write a book?

3 – 4 months

What’s your writing work schedule like?

Crazy! I’m up early! First I have my marching orders with God. Then I check and post social media. Exercise. Breakfast. Shower. Now to write on my project until noon. After lunch, I continue with my own writing, pen blogs, and read/edit my mentoring students.

Do you have an interesting writing quirk? If so, what is it?

Good question . . . Most of what I do is quirky . . . eccentric . . . at times bizarre. I want boots on the ground regarding my setting – which has been challenging.

What has been your greatest joy(s) in your writing career?

Two: Receiving the author copies of my first book, and winning my first Christy Award in 2010.

What has been your darkest moment(s)?

When I chose to write suspense instead of romance and waited three months for a contract.

Which of your books is your favorite?

That’s like asking which member of my family is my favorite. It’s always the one I’ve just written or the current story.

Who is your favorite author to read?

David Baldacci.

What advice can you give aspiring writers that you wished you had gotten, or that you wished you would have listened too?

A novelist’s job is not easy, neither does a writer want it to be. Be prepared to grow and change each time you write, and never stop learning.

What is the single greatest tool you believe a writer should have in his or her toolbox?

Passion for story.

  I’d like to conclude this question with two quotes.

Ray Bradbury – Love. Fall in love and stay in love. Write only what you love, and love what you write. The key word is love. You have to get up in the morning and write something you love, something to live for.

Winston Churchill – Never, never, never give up.

How many times in your career have you experienced rejection?

A lot!

How did they shape you?

Helped me to see my self-worth is not tied up in performance but in how much my God loves me.

Do you have a favorite character or scene in one of your books?

Another tough one to answer. I like the scene in Double Cross where Laurel learns about Abby’s game room. It’s not what the average person thinks . . .

Where do you get your ideas?

Everywhere – from media headlines to conversations to dreams.

What are common mistakes you see aspiring writer’s make?

Giving up. Telling instead of showing. Incomplete edits.

Where/How do you recommend writers try to break into the market?

Read the how-to books and attend writer conferences. Re-read those how-to books and attend more writer conferences. Re-write. Learn the value of social media and get involved with the community. Commit time to read the bestsellers and figure out why and how it’s a bestseller. Discover the habits of published writers and incorporate them into your world.

Write every day.

Read every day.

Pray every day.

 

Check out a complete selection of DiAnn’s books here: http://www.diannmills.com

 

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A Lighter Look at the Writer's Life

You Can’t Make Them All

One of my favorite quotes is “Learn from the mistakes of others; you can never live long enough to make them all yourself.” I would tell you who said it, but the experts (and Google) seem to be confused, as I have found it attributed to Groucho Marx, Eleanor Roosevelt, and Woody Allen. Wouldn’t that make a fine dinner party?

I recently taught the “Newbie” class at a writers conference, designed for new writers who had never attended a conference before. When I teach a class like this one, I am transparent and talk about my mistakes. And, oh, I have made so many when it comes to writing. Here’s my confessional, designed as a cautionary tale of what not to do.

1.       I sent out things that weren’t ready yet. I arrived at my first writer’s conference with a printed copy of what I thought was the next bestseller. I knew someone would offer me a contract by supper on the first day of the conference, and then I would return to the event the next year as the keynote speaker, with my published book in tow. Well, that didn’t happen—it still hasn’t happened. I finally realized I needed more training and more information about the industry. Guess what? Many, many years after that first conference, I am still learning.

2.       I approached editors/publishers/agents without a proper pitch and plan. At my first big-time conference, I made appointments and had no idea what to do with them. I had no one-sheet and no planned pitch. I’m sure those people look back and chuckle. With many conferences under my belt now, I realize the importance of pitching and planning (Hey, that sounds like a book—don’t steal my idea!).

3.       I didn’t follow up on offers to send in my work. Yes, I was one of those people, who got an invitation to send samples to an editor but didn’t follow through. I’m still kicking myself. I let fear and a sense of unworthiness keep me from connecting. One particular (unnamed) person intimidated me so much that I almost quit writing. I have learned now that editors, agents, and publishers won’t actually eat you, and rejection won’t kill you.

4.       Speaking of rejection, I let it keep me from pursuing my goals. One year I had a promising “bite” from an editor. I submitted my work and almost immediately received a stinging rejection. I didn’t write for months after that. I have learned the hard way that rejection is part of a writer’s life, and I can’t let it get me down.

So learn from my mistakes, and keep writing and pressing toward your goal. God’s strength is made perfect in our weaknesses, and I am certainly living proof.

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5 For Writing

My 5 Rules for Writing

Snoopy

My favorite canine writer, Snoopy of Peanuts fame, received a boatload of rejection slips in his pursuit of a publisher over the years, and some of them are gems.

“Dear contributor, thank you for submitting your story to our magazine,” one publisher wrote to Snoopy. “To save time, we are enclosing two rejection slips…one for this story and one for the next story you send us.”

In publishing, it’s a dog-eat-dog world.

That’s why there is no shortage of advice on writing and getting published. For instance, five commonly quoted rules on writing and finding a publisher came from Robert Heinlein, the famed science fiction writer. Heinlein’s five rules are:

  1. You must write.
  2. You must finish what you write.
  3. You must refrain from rewriting, except to editorial order.
  4. You must put the work on the market.
  5. You must keep the work on the market until it is sold.

Four of these rules are excellent for both beginning and experienced writers, but I find Rule 3 on the strange side, as do many people; in fact, one online post about these rules comes with an Aspiring Author Warning—“Don’t try #3 at home.” From what I understand, Heinlein admitted that he did revise and rewrite, so I’m not sure where that rule even came from.

Regardless of the oddness of Rule 3, this time-tested list got me thinking about what rules I have subconsciously followed during my 38 years of writing since graduating from journalism school in 1977. So I came up with my “5 for Writing.

  1. Get writing. Find the time to write. Then do it.
  1. Learn by listening—and doing. Solicit feedback, discern what helps you.
  1. Finish your story. Edit and rewrite, but don’t tinker forever. Reach the finish line.
  1. Thrive on rejection. Get your story out there. Be fearless. Accept rejection.
  1. Become a juggler. After one story is finished, be ready to start another. Consider writing two at once.

Note that my Rules 1 and 3 correspond to Heinlein’s 1 and 2. Every list of writing rules probably needs those two because starting and finishing are the two greatest obstacles. As the poet Henry Wadsworth Longfellow once said, “Great is the art of beginning, but greater is the art of ending.”

As for Rule 2, it takes time to find a reliable circle of friends and colleagues who give you honest and helpful feedback. But it’s critical. Rule 5 may not be for everyone, but I work best when I’m juggling several projects. And if the idea of writing more than one story at a time makes your brain hurt, at least try to get multiple manuscripts on the market; it only increases your odds of finding a publisher.

Finally, my “thrive on rejection” rule was inspired by an old episode of the TV show M*A*S*H when Hawkeye Pierce said something to the effect of “I thrive on rejection.” Hawkeye was talking about not giving up when it came to finding a woman, but I have found that this philosophy also applies to finding publishers. (Both can be heart-breaking pursuits.)

In my forthcoming blogs, I intend that each installment will fall under one of these five rules—and if it doesn’t I’ll find a way to shoehorn it in. In the meantime, try to maintain the same indefatigable spirit of Snoopy—the only writer to ever have a mailbox run away from him when he tried to send off a new manuscript.

So what was Snoopy’s response to his many rejections? He once wrote back to a publisher by saying, “Gentleman, regarding the recent rejection slip you sent me. I think there might have been a misunderstanding. What I really wanted was for you to publish my story, and send me fifty thousand dollars.”

After a pause, Snoopy added…

“Didn’t you realize that?”

Now that’s a dog who thrives on rejection.

 

 

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When an Asset Becomes a Liability

The setting sold us. A property with mature trees and a creek running behind it. Even in March, with the trees still bare, we saw what could be: morning coffee on a shaded deck serenaded by a chorus of birds. We were confident that deer and other wildlife would be frequent guests.

The ink was barely dry on the mortgage papers when we learned about the special assessment. Built on private property to avoid city code restrictions, our home and several other structures in the development were built too close to the waterway. Erosion threatens to undermine their stability. What we considered our new home’s finest asset has become a $100,000+ liability

The thing we love has become the thing that costs—dearly. Or as my father likes to say, “Anticipation exceeded reality.” I hated hearing that as a child. It seemed to be setting us up for disappointment. I suspect he was trying to instill a life truth. For those of us who choose to spend all or a good portion of our life writing, it’s probably a good aphorism to keep in mind.

I doubt few writers expect to make the New York Times best seller list with their debut novel. Success stories like this are the exception rather than the rule. I believe most of us write, even if it’s only journaling, because it’s something we can’t not do. Whether we take pen in hand or type on a computer keyboard, putting ideas and thoughts on paper fulfills a longing. It satisfies something deep inside. Ed Cyzewski says in Write, Pray, Grow, “… writing provides a way to process and think deeply about difficult topics.” [bctt tweet=”Even if we only write to sort out our thoughts or ideas, there’s great value in it.” username=””]

Even so, the call to write for publication comes with certain assets and liabilities.

Those who see only the “glamour” of writing: the ability to set your own hours, work from anywhere, and the thrill of seeing your name in print, ought to be aware of the realities of the writing life:

  • Writers block is real. Many is the time I’ve sat down to write and came up empty. The perfectly worded phrase or concept I “wrote” as I drifted off to sleep the previous night is gone. My internal editor criticizes every word before it hits the paper—and I continue to stare at a blank screen wondering why I thought I could do this. Every writer experiences periods where the words and ideas vanish. Acknowledge it, call it by name, and walk away for a time. In fact, many writers suggest a walk or another type of diversion to get your mind working in other ways. The change of scenery and thought processes often triggers creativity.
  • Expect rejection. Unless or until you secure a book contract with a major publisher, you’ll be submitting book proposals or magazine articles with no assurance they will be accepted for publication. But you’re in good company. Kathryn Stockett submitted The Help 60 times before it was published; Stephen King’s Carrie was rejected 30 times; Beatrix Potter self-published The Tale of Peter Rabbit—before self-publishing was as easy as it is today. Persevere through rejection and learn not to take it personally.
  • Writing is a discipline. Some consider it a spiritual discipline like prayer. A discipline requires that you do something even when you don’t feel like it. Once it becomes a habit missing a day puts you off kilter. Certainly independent writers have more flexibility in setting a schedule than 9–5 employees, but they do need to discipline themselves to put in the time necessary to produce. For those still working the day job it likely means making time in an already fully-scheduled day to write. For some that’s early mornings. Others find they are more productive after everyone else in the household has gone to bed. Stay-at-home parents, like Cyzewski, have learned to make the most of down times in their children’s schedules and write in short blocks of time throughout the day. Learning what works for you and then cultivating the discipline to stick to it is critical to a writer’s success.

We’re still absorbing the blow of an unexpected expense. The good news is that because we are part of a homeowners association, the cost of the stabilization project will be shared equally by all members. Such is the value of community. Writers, too, need the encouragement and support of a writing community. A mentor, a critique group—in person or online—not only helps hone writing skills, but can serve as a counterpoint to the discouragement and self-doubt that often plague a writer. A writing community like A3 or Word Weavers just may be the greatest asset a writer has.

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Child's Craft

Keep the FAITH in your Writing

Keeping the faith in your writing can be difficult. I remember sitting on my back porch with a rejection letter in my hand just sobbing. I had received the go ahead from this publisher to send in my full proposal. I’d been waiting in anticipation for several months and believed this was the publisher the Lord had provided. I’d worked so hard to perfect this manuscript but then it came. The dreaded rejection letter. It wasn’t what they needed at the time. Rejection letters weren’t new to me as I’d already received a year’s worth of them, but for some reason, this publisher hurt me the most. I just wanted to quit.

Have you been there? Are you experiencing this or something similar now? It seems that rejection letters aren’t sent so much anymore, as the dreaded silent treatment. No news is not good news in these cases. Luckily my youngest daughter, saddened at seeing her mom sobbing at that time, cuddled next to me and said, “You have to write, Mommy. You’re a writer.”

That was just what I needed to hear at the time to gradually snap me out of my Writers Pit of Despair. We all have one. Some of us visit it more than others. But believe me, we all have them.

What do we do when we don’t have a precious toddler telling us that we have to keep writing?  I think it’s okay to visit the pit once in a while for a brief pity party, but don’t set up camp down there. Claw your way back out. Keep the FAITH. That may sound cliché but I’ve come up with an acronym of FAITH for writers to keep us out of the pits of despair.

F – Fully believe in God’s anointing of your gift of writing.

God gave you the gift of writing for His glory. We don’t know what that means to Him, but we are to use the gifts He’s given to us. You may be asking, “How do I know if He’s given me the gift of writing or not?” People who do not have the gift of writing know it. They don’t like anything having to do with writing. They probably don’t journal, they dreaded writing assignments in school and don’t doodle in idle time. They aren’t looking at the world differently. They may not even enjoy reading. But if you can’t NOT write, you’ve probably got the gift.

A – Actively write or create. God is the Great Creator and I believe loves to see everyone creating in one form or another. Even when you’re visiting the pit, reach for a pen and your beautiful journal (life is too short to use ugly journals) and scribble your thoughts, your feelings and prayers down. Scratch out a note to your mother. Write a letter of praise to God. Draw. Color in those new adult coloring books. Make a craft with your child. Paint. Organize a drawer. Cross stitch. Sew. Find something to create to get your creative juices flowing again.

I – Involve yourself with other writers. Join a critique group. Word Weavers has local chapters all over. See if there’s one close to you or check out http://www.meetup.com/ to find local writers groups. Attend a conference to network with other writers. Join a writers group on facebook. Get creative to find other writers. You know they’re out there.

T- Thank God for your inspirations, for your time to write, for blessings and anything else that comes to mind. Giving thanks brings joy. In fact, giving thanks may be what lifts you out of the pit.

H – Hope, have faith. You have a hope in Jesus and in His love for you. Believe he has the best in mind for you and will use you and your writing in ways you probably can’t even fathom at this point. Be open to His leading. Believe in Him. Believe in your gifts and have FAITH.

Know you’re not alone in this. Anybody who claims to be a writer will receive a rejection or ‘silence’ at some point or many points. Rejections are the battle scars that show we’re writing. Keep writing and keep the FAITH.

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A Lighter Look at the Writer's Life

Hurry! I Need Patience!

Don’t you love lessons in patience?

Me, neither.

Patience doesn’t come easy for me, so, when I became a Christian over 17 years ago, God began teaching me . . . I just wish He’d hurry!

Today seemed like Finals Week in His lesson plan.

First, I went to a fast food restaurant to get my wife some breakfast. They gave me a number, 141, and I watched as numbers passed me by . . . 142 . . . 143 . . . 148. As we got closer to 150, I got worried.

Next, I stopped at a popular retail store to get a key made for my son’s new car. I walked to the key counter at the back of the store, got the key made relatively easily, and walked back outside to try it. Of course, it didn’t work, so I made my way back inside and to the back of the store to the counter, where a man was purchasing a fishing license and supplies. He made Tim Conway’s “old man” character from the Carol Burnett Show look like the Flash.

When it was finally my turn, the lady examined the key, realized the wrong mold had been used and they were out of the one I needed.

I had to go back up front to the returns counter for a refund, and a long, slow-moving line awaited me there.

I returned home to do my son’s laundry from tennis camp. I had kept his bag closed all night because . . . well, you can imagine.

I worked up my courage, opened the bag, loaded the clothes and turned on the washer. Nothing happened. Turns out, my neighborhood was experiencing a water outage.

Due to this outage, I had to go to another local restaurant to get supper. After waiting for an interminable time, I got my food, but the order was wrong. More waiting.

Days like these make me want to drop out of “Patience 101,” but, unfortunately, it’s a required course.

Writing and publishing are a major part of this learning experience. I write, I submit, I wait. I get a rejection, I try again. And on and on.

Sometimes I have to step back and remember why I do what I do. It was God Who planted this dream of writing and publishing in my heart, and it is God Who will see it come to fruition, in His time and in His way.

But, man, I wish He’d hurry!

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