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A Lighter Look at the Writer's Life

You Never Know

I love writing conferences. If you have been reading this blog for very long, you already know that, because I have written about them many, many times.

I love the camaraderie of those with like minds. I love learning new things about writing and the publishing industry. I love eating in the cafeteria and pretending it is summer camp with all my friends.

Today I am thinking about the opportunities provided during the one-on-one appointments with editors, publishers, and the like. I love those, too, for you never know what’s going to happen and when God is going to open a door from a seemingly random encounter.

At the conference I attended this year, I signed up for two appointments with people I really wanted to talk to. SCORE! The rule with this conference states you’re allowed two appointments during the initial sign-up period—which is a free-for-all, by the way. It’s a good thing it’s a Christian conference, or else there would be pushing, shoving, and cage matches.

After that initial wrestling match—er, signup period—you are allowed to go back the next morning for additional appointments if there are open slots left. Not one to ignore an extra opportunity, I always go back to check the appointment sheets. This year, I signed up for my third appointment with a writer/editor I didn’t really know, but, when she introduced herself at the group meeting, she said she was looking for parenting articles.

I recently co-authored a devotional book, Adventures in Fatherhood, about . . . PARENTING, so I thought, why not talk to this person?

It turned out to be a divine appointment. At our meeting, she grabbed my book and screamed “I LOVE IT!” We discussed her editorial needs, and she suggested I send copies of the book to contacts at an organization she once worked for and still does some consulting. I won’t mention the name of the organization, but they do have a keen focus.

Back home, I stood in the valley of decision. Did I really want to send someone a book out of the blue? Wouldn’t that seem a bit weird? Have I ever denied that I am weird? Don’t answer that last question.

I took the plunge and sent the books, because you never know. That phrase has become my theme for seeking writing opportunities: it just might be a God-thing. You never know unless you try.

After I put the copies in the mail, my school year started, and my schedule was full. I had forgotten I had sent the books until, a few weeks later, I got an email from a representative of the organization. He and his staff LOVED the book and wanted to discuss freelance opportunities with me and my co-author.

Say what? A person gets a random book and likes it? And wants me to write some more? DOUBLE SCORE!

Lesson learned: take the opportunity. Try, even it seems random. After all, nothing is random with God.

You never know.

Carlton

Carlton Hughes, represented by Cyle Young of Hartline Literary, wears many hats. By day, he is a professor of communication. On Wednesday evenings and Sunday mornings, he serves as a children’s pastor. In his “spare time,” he is a freelance writer. Carlton is an empty-nesting dad and devoted husband who likes long walks on the beach, old sitcoms, and chocolate—all the chocolate. His work has been featured in Chicken Soup for the Soul: The Dating Game, The Wonders of Nature, Let the Earth Rejoice, Just Breathe, So God Made a Dog, and Everyday Grace for Men. His latest book is Adventures in Fatherhood, co-authored with Holland Webb.

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Devotions for Writers

SEIZE the Day!

“Pharaoh…is only a loud noise; he has missed his opportunity.”

Jeremiah 46:17 (NIV)

Do you know anyone who talks about what they will do “someday,” but never seem to get around to it? Maybe that someone is you? Just today, I realized I hadn’t worked on a priority project in two weeks.  The tyranny of the urgent monopolizes my days. Time slips away and other things fill the void where that priority would have been.

What is holding you back? Are you afraid the editor will change your words? Are you worried about rejection? Maybe like me, you’ve shelved works that have been rejected and given up on ideas you once championed?

Would you believe me if I told you rejection is good for writers? I never thought I would be thankful for rejection, but I can see ways it toughens me. I am developing a “thick writer’s skin” that enables me to write for the Lord, instead of worrying about whether or not people like my words. I knew I was making progress, when a recent rejection helped me reevaluate the project, instead of dumping it.

The Pharaoh Jeremiah referred to must have been quite boastful. He talked big, but the Lord proclaimed his bragging as fruitless. There are times that I talk about being a writer, but don’t actually do it. Daily activities consume my energies before I realize I haven’t produced the fruit of writing. It’s convicting to confess I squandered the chance to develop thoughts and words into sentences and paragraphs that could propel others into a better place with their own lives.

Be encouraged. Your words are needed in this world. No one can form ideas quite like you. You bring a unique perspective to events in your community people need to hear. Let two of my favorite verses for writers bolster you, too. Proverbs 25:11 says our words are beautiful. And, Psalm 22:25 prods my commitment to use my writing to encourage God’s people and to challenge growth.

Today, determine to miss no more opportunities. Take a risk, and send out your words!

Exercise:

Get out your Writer’s Market and make a list of publications that line up with one of your current pieces. Write a query letter. Polish it. Edit it. Then let go of it. Press “send” and stop worrying.

When you receive a rejection letter, revise your query and send it to the next editor on your list.

No more missed opportunities!

Over 140 of Sally Ferguson’s devotionals have been published in Pathways to God (Warner Press). She’s also written for Light From The Word, Chautauqua Mirror, Just Between Us, Adult Span Curriculum, Thriving Family, Upgrade with Dawn and ezinearticles.com. Prose Contest Winner at 2017 Greater Philly Christian Writers Conference.

Sally loves organizing retreats and seeing relationships blossom in time away from the daily routine. Her ebook, How to Plan a Women’s Retreat is available on Amazon

Sally Ferguson lives in the beautiful countryside of Jamestown, NY with her husband and her dad.

Visit Sally’s blog at www.sallyferguson.net