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Embrace the Wait

Find Your Fellow Tesserae and Stick Together (Part 2): Improve Your Health to Improve Your Clarity

In my last post I explained that our writing journey should not be a solo trip. God has placed people in our lives who help complete the mosaic He is creating with our lives. Each piece of a mosaic is called a tesserae. I’d like to introduce another tesserae in my mosaic—Susan Neal.

I met this wonder-woman at my very first writer’s conference and was so impressed with her confidence, knowledge, and genuinely kind personality, but I was absolutely blown away to later discover her age! This youthful lady has some secrets about health to share with us that will help us gain clarity, strength, and success as writers.

1) Susan, tell us a little bit about your health journey and where and when your mission to help others become more health conscious began.

I combated a health crisis at the age of forty-nine. In November of that year, I had a crown placed on a tooth. Little did I know how that would mark the beginning of losing my good health. Ultimately, this tooth abscessed and poisoned my body over the next nine months, resulting in ten medical diagnoses and two surgeries. It took years to recover. I understand the devastating effects of being ill, and I want to help others reclaim their health as I did mine.

For years I did not realize that the nonfiction, healthy living genre was perfect for me. Instead, I tried other genres which resulted in rejection. Ultimately, I figured out my writing path should be where I could use my nursing background and illness to help others regain their health and optimal weight.

I am finally pursuing a divine direction, but it took years to figure it out. I wasn’t supposed to be a fiction or devotional author; I was supposed to use my background to assist others with health issues. I encountered much rejection during the first few years of my writing journey, but I persevered. Have you determined the spiritual writing path that you should pursue?

2) As a writer yourself, you understand the amount of energy, stamina, and patience required to make it to publication. How can the foods we eat make an impact on our success and stress levels during that process?

Unhealthy eating can contribute to poor writing. After a writer consumes refined carbohydrates or high-sugar foods, it negatively affects mood and clarity of mind. The mind becomes foggy, and it hard to remember things. Blood-sugar levels rise, which gives a rush of energy, but then it plummets, and the person feels lethargic. To counteract the effects of low blood sugar, adrenaline is released and causes anxiety. Blood-sugar fluctuations cause moodiness, irritability, and depression. When this occurs we are not at our best.

To produce our best work for the Lord, we need to nourish our bodies with the foods he gave us, not the food industry. Stay away from processed foods in boxes and bags that have a long shelf life. Instead, eat God’s foods that are whole, natural, and as close to harvest as possible. For example, grab some raw nuts to eat instead of crackers or chips. God’s foods will give you energy and mental clarity.

If you lack motivation and mental clarity, evaluate what you ate the previous 24 hours. Did it include sugar or wheat? Determine if something you ate or drank caused your symptoms and record the culprit on your calendar or in the Notes app on your phone. Figure out what makes you foggy-brained and avoid it so you can write clearly and efficiently.

3) Have you found a direct correlation to health and mental clarity in your own writing?

Absolutely, with the holidays I ate more desserts. This caused my mind and body to feel sluggish. I try to avoid desserts that are high in sugar but during the holidays we all splurge. Recently I created four healthy living cookbooks to help others navigate a healthy lifestyle. Currently, the cookbook bundle is half-price here. These healthy, delicious recipes are low-sugar, gluten-free, and provide alternatives for dairy.

3) What advice would you give someone who is just starting out and ready to take the leap to pursue a healthier lifestyle?

I can answer this question best by reviewing some of the steps from my number one Amazon bestseller, 7 Steps to Get Off Sugar and Carbohydrates.

Step 1. Decide to improve your health through proper nutrition.

The decision to improve your health is very personal. No one can make this decision for you. Deciding is the hardest step, but once you decide to change your eating habits you can achieve your healthy living goals.

Step 2. Acquire knowledge and a support system to help make a lifestyle change.

Learning which foods are harmful versus beneficial is crucial in sorting out what you should eat. For example, most oat, soy, corn, and wheat crops in the United States are genetically modified organisms (GMO) Roundup Ready crops where the carcinogen glyphosate (active ingredient in Roundup) is used on the crops because the herbicide does not harm them. Therefore, you could

Step 3: Clean out the pantry and refrigerator by removing unhealthy foods, and clean out your emotions.

Remove unhealthy foods from your kitchen so you are not tempted to eat them. Some unhealthy foods include wheat, sugar, corn syrup, white rice, artificial sweeteners, processed meats, processed foods, margarine, milk products, and soft drinks.

God gave us food to nourish our bodies. Yet food can be used for the wrong reasons. We may eat because we are sad, bored, stressed, depressed, or happy. As we engage in emotional eating, we turn to food instead of God. Cleaning out your emotions involves determining your relationship with food. Is it a healthy relationship or dysfunctional?

You can review the rest of the steps and gain the knowledge you need to make positive lifestyle changes in my megabook, Healthy Living Series: 3 Books in 1 and my course 7 Steps to Reclaim Your Optimal Weight. Both are on sale for half-price through January 7, 2021. God gave us glorious bodies that heal from many ailments if we eat His foods. When you are healthy you can produce the best quality work for the Lord. Start the new year by choosing to take care of the glorious body God gave you. May God bless you in 2021.

Scripture: 1 Corinthians 14:26, Hebrews 10:24, 1 Peter 3:8

Fun Fact or Helpful Resource:
As a Certified AWSA Writer Coach, Susan Neal RN, MBA, MHS, desires to help others publish and sell their God-given message. She is the author of seven healthy living books. Her self-published number one Amazon best-seller 7 Steps to Get Off Sugar and Carbohydrates, won the Selah award and sold over 15,000 copies in three years.

Annette Marie Griffin is an award-winning author who has managed and directed programs for children and youth for more than twenty years. She has written curriculum for character growth and development of elementary-age children, developed parent training seminars to benefit the community, and counseled at-risk youth. Her first children’s book What Is A Family? released in 2020. She and her husband have five children—three who have already flown the coop and two adopted teens still roosting at home—plus two adorable grands who add immeasurable joy and laughter to the whole flock. 

Susan Neal won the 2020 Christian Author Network Crown Award for Outstanding Broadcast Media for her book marketing campaign. She is a trusted advisor for authors and helps many sell more books. Would you like to sell more books? Susan can teach you how. Take her Serious Writer Academy Course How to Sell 1000 Books in 3 Months. Susan is new director of Christian Indie Publishing Association.

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Writing for YA

Feeling Blocked? Five Tips to Help

I’ve never liked the term writer’s block and prefer to call it writer’s exhaustion, but it means the same thing. Hours or days of staring at a blank screen unable to type a word.

Recently, I’ve found myself at the crossroads between emotional exhaustion and distraction.

It’s common for creativity to dry up when a person is overwhelmed. Distraction also plays into the inability to buckle down and produce. Writing requires a lot of thinking and emotional input. 

At times I have plenty to say, but emotion stands firmly between my heart and my pen. Then I feel guilty and frustrated, which only adds to the stress.

In this situation, the first thing to do is to recognize the various demands and stressors affecting attitudes, feelings, and productivity.

Here are five tips that help when you’re feeling blocked

Focus on a different task for a short time.

Finding a new creative outlet can re energize, give a tired brain something else to concentrate on. We require times of refreshment, even when situations demand urgent action. It’s okay to take a moment or two, or three for mental health. 

Adapt. 

I received an email from a dear friend yesterday. An in-person writing group has been one of her anchors for years. A support system suddenly becoming unavailable is painful. Virtual meeting aren’t the same, but at least alternative methods exist. 

Many of my friends are taking advantage of writing conferences they wouldn’t ordinarily be able to attend. New seminars and opportunities are offered daily as organizations attempt to fill writers’ current needs.

While writing fiction is hard for me at the moment, taking notes isn’t a problem. For me, this dry spell is an opportunity to concentrate on learning craft. For others, the opposite may be true and periods of writer’s block are the perfect time to journal or explore a different type of writing.

There will be times when the well seems empty. Try to find things to focus on that are attainable. 

Celebrate accomplishments. 

I have a tendency to expect a great deal from myself, and it helps to stop and change my view point,  think about successes in light of my circumstances. I constantly need to remind myself I have a limited energy budget. We aren’t designed to do it all. There is no guilt in that admission. Recognize the goal posts along the way, instead of focusing on the never-ending to do list gives a realistic picture of progress and spurs me forward.

Find joy in the art of writing.

I am one for structure and schedules, which can sap the joy right out of what I love and turn it into a grind. I used to have a mindset that if it’s too much fun, maybe I’m not working hard enough. That’s not true. It’s still work even if I love my calling. It’s right and good to take joy in the gifts and abilities God has given.

Rest.

For me, the biggest obstacle is giving myself permission to allow time for self-care. Self-care is not selfish. It’s necessary for healthy functioning. It’s okay to take a break from whatever is stressful. 

It’s okay to be kind to yourself.

Donna Jo Stone writes YA contemporary novels about tough issues but always ends the stories with a note of hope. She blogs at donnajostone.com.

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The Intentional Writer

How to Help Your Creativity Thrive

Creativity doesn’t just happen. It’s not some inherent talent that some are blessed with and others are not. Creativity can be developed. It can also be neglected, or hindered by bad habits.

We writers need to take good care of our creative abilities. If we neglect the care and feeding of our creative selves we will never reach our creative potential.

What can we do to help creativity thrive?

Creativity thrives when we:

  • Give ourselves the freedom to make mistakes. Mistakes are part of learning and growing. Writers who are afraid to make mistakes will limit themselves to what they are already good instead of experimenting with new things that might lead to failure (but also might lead to breakthroughs).
  • Take creative risks. Muscles don’t strengthen unless we challenge them. In the same way, our creative muscles need to be challenged in order to grow. We don’t know what we are capable of unless we try.
  • Make lots of art. Studies show that artists who produce lots of works are also the ones who produce the best, most creative works. In the process they also produce many mediocre works, but that is OK. Without all the not-so-great art to experiment with, they would never have developed the truly brilliant ones.  
  • Seek wide and varied inputs from all areas of life. This includes exposure to excellent art in a wide variety of forms as well as an attitude of life-long learning in other areas. The more good material our brain has to play with, the better.  
  • Embrace challenges and discomfort, because we know they will force us to grow and adapt. Bad stuff happens in life. We can use those things as an excuse to quit or we can work despite the challenges. The most creative ideas tend to come out of the most severe constraints.
  • Welcome a little bit of mess. It turns out a little chaos is good for the creative process. Don’t stress over the mess so long as you can still find what you need. Additionally, get your hands dirty now and then doing something creative. Creativity is enhanced when we interact with our messy world.
  • Have the courage to dig deep into our souls and explore dark and uncomfortable places. Staying on the surface feels safer, but it won’t lead us to our most inspired work.
  • Find encouragement and feedback from writers and non-writers. Creative work is not easy. We all need support along the way. We also need honest, useful feedback to help us improve. How intentional are you about developing your creative support network? About encouraging your fellow creatives?

11 ideas to encourage and stretch your creative thinking

  1. Go to an art exhibit. Pay attention to the moods and thoughts the art evokes. Can you figure out why?
  2. Read a highly rated book in a genre you don’t normally read. Pay attention to how the author uses his craft.
  3. Learn something new. Take a cooking class, sign up for dancing lessons, study a new language. Anything that engages the brain in a new way is good for overall creative function.
  4. Get together with a non-writer and discuss a subject that interests you or a topic tangentially related to your story. (Philosophy, medical breakthroughs, ancient history, psychology, a hobby…)
  5. Watch the director’s commentary on a movie you’ve seen before and appreciate all the kinds of art that happen behind the scenes. What do you learn about good storytelling?
  6. Make something with your hands. A picture, a birdhouse, a fancy cake. Creating stuff is good for the soul. It also builds new neural pathways while giving the language processing areas time to relax.  
  7. Write something in a different genre. A poem. A few scenes of a fantasy. A radio drama. It doesn’t matter how good it is, what matters is that you climbed outside your box.
  8. Experiment with different kinds of background music while you write. Notice how different types of music affect your mood and your writing.
  9. Attend an event your main character would enjoy, such as a wine tasting, a car show, or a political rally. The more it takes you outside your box, the better.
  10. Make up distinct voices for your primary characters and read scenes aloud. Better yet, hold verbal conversations with your characters (but maybe not in public).
  11. Take a virtual shopping trip. Pretend you are one of your characters and shop for things that character would buy that you wouldn’t. For best results, don’t just browse the internet but actually go to a store and handle the objects.

I hope these ideas inspire you to new levels of creativity.

Lisa E. Betz believes that everyone has a story to tell the world. She loves to encourage fellow writers to be intentional about their craft and courageous in sharing their words with others. Lisa shares her words through dramas, Bible studies, historical mysteries, and her blog about intentional living. You can find her on Facebook  LisaEBetzWriter Twitter @LisaEBetz and Pinterest Lisa E Betz.