We all make sacrifices every day. Every time you chose something, you sacrifice the other option. But some sacrifices loom larger than others. Attending a writers conference is one of those.
I sacrificed to attend Blue Ridge Mountain Christian Writers Conference this year. I missed honors programs for both my children as well as the last day of school for each of them. I skipped a special social event for my oldest. I forfeited my last quiet day at home before summer and several days of regular fitness and nutrition habits. I didn’t write for more than four whole days. (Learning about writing is not the same thing.) I also broke one of my favorite shoes on all those hills and steps at Ridgecrest.
I’m not the only one who sacrificed so I could spend four days in the beautiful (albeit foggy) mountains of North Carolina. My husband worked from home, drove the kids to everything including dentist appointments (Okay, I’m glad I missed that.), and cooked dinner (usually my job). Plus, I’m sure he could have found something meaningful to do with those hundreds of dollars we paid for me to be there. We won’t mention the additional money I “donated” at the bookstore.
My sacrifices may seem silly or unimportant to you, but for me, they almost compelled me to stay home.
I’m glad I didn’t.
The conference is over now. I’ve slid back into my favorite yoga pants and sip from my favorite coffee mug again. But the significance of those sacrifices is incomplete until I finish what I started at Blue Ridge.
The significance of my sacrifices is incomplete until I finish what I started at #BRMCWC. @a3forme @Carole_Sparks (click to tweet) Share on X
Craft: In workshops and classes, I learned specific ways to improve my writing, but I must implement those changes when I sit down at the computer. It’s easy to remain in the ruts I’ve plowed until now. A pastor I know once said, “A rut is just a grave with the ends kicked out.” I can also schedule a time to view handouts and listen to recordings of classes. This is a great way to expand on what I’ve already received.
Lifestyle: Faculty and speakers at Blue Ridge suggested lifestyle changes to create more or better space for writing. Making those changes takes some intentionality, and like any other choice means I must give up something else so I can write. I need to communicate these changes to my family and make those difficult choices every day until they are habits.
Connections: The highlight of a writers conference is undoubtedly the connections we make with other writers. I could let all those business cards sit in a folder until I forget about the people they represent, or I can “friend” them on Facebook, follow their blogs, and ensure we stay connected. I made promises to a few people: to recommend them to someone else or provide information of some sort. My integrity is at stake if I remain silent.
Submissions: Industry professionals with whom I met asked for submissions from me. I must take the time to compose what they requested, then take a deep breath and hit send! (You might have heard this one before.)
If I don’t follow through on the commitments I made at Blue Ridge, I’ve squandered the sacrifices it took for me to be there. I don’t want to belittle my calling or my family’s efforts. Instead, I want to honor those sacrifices and gain everything I can from the conference. That means I finish what I started.
Honor the #sacrifices you made to attend a #writersconference when you follow thru. @a3forme @Carole_Sparks #BRMCWC (click to tweet) Share on XWhat about you? How are you honoring the sacrifices made for you to attend a conference? Keep yourself accountable by sharing in the comments below.
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Carole is passionate about God’s Word—about how it can change our everyday lives! After years of globetrotting, she now lives, learns, and loves (plus a good bit of writing) in the hills of East Tennessee. Connect with Carole through her blog, http://notaboutme1151.wordpress.com or Facebook.
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Great post, Carole! Distraction and not following through is a major problem after a conference, but you are right–we must stay the course! When we see what God will do through our obedience, the sacrifices are worth it. Thanks for sharing your experiences. 🙂
Thanks, Leigh Ann. I think God honors our sacrifices as well.
So good! Thank you for the reminder of what we sacrificed to go to Blue Ridge. I’m polishing up an article I promised an editor today. I’ll pray for you as I hit “send,” thanking God for our connection in NC.
Great job, Lyneta! Praying it’s well-received. Thanks for the encouragement. I’m working on my proposal and some edits today.
Well-said, Carole. Thanks for sharing this post. It is too easy after a conference to fall back into old habits and get caught up in the busyness of normal routines. And yes, everyone does sacrifice to attend the conference…so let’s make it worth it! Back to writing now : )
Keep at it, Cynthia! It’s really easy to pick up where we left off back at home, but in attending the conference, God has called us to something more. Hope you were encouraged.
This is an excellent and impassioned post and a great reminder to me personally. Reading it brought tears to my eyes. Truly we each sacrificed something to be at BRMCWC. Shame on us if we don’t follow through. Thank you, Carol.
P.S. – I love seeing you on the mountain.
I loved seeing you again too, Connie. Let’s recognize all the sacrifices and make sure we thank those who made them. I know I need to thank my husband and children again. (I should have mentioned that in the post.)
Carole, Thank you for the poignant post. I never thought of the sacrifice like that. I’m happily convicted. Gotta go finish my book proposal.
Me too! My goal is Friday (or before), but I’ve a long way to go before then.
Hey, Carole! So glad to see you here. I agree wholeheartedly with your points. This year’s BRMCWC was my first and my writing life was nourished. Great post and congratulations on the honor of guest posting! You’re taking steps on your investment. Keep your pen active!